monster666
COOKIE!!
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I have noticed posts on numerous other threads dealing with bisex that straight men would submit to a bisexual encounter for the sake of their SO's pleasure. I haven't yet seen a thread dealing with this issue specifically, but being relatively new, I may have missed an earlier one. Anyways, here's a new one.
While I have no desire to suck a cock and though I haven't been there/done that, discussion of such a scenario with a certain someone over the past year has resulted in my realization that I am among that group that would submit, given the right circumstances. I think my desire to please someone I care for and trust to such a degree is stronger than any negative feeling I might have about such a situation.
An no, I am not BI. Before anyone brings up the "walks like a duck/quacks like a duck" thing, consider this: Not everything is done for ourselves. I don't see anyone that normally doesn't like to be shot with a gun but still taking a bullet to save someone else being considered suicidal rather than heroic. Granted, it's a pretty extreme comparison, but there is more kinship to that analogy than the quacking duck one. My view is that submitting to my SO's desires in such a case does not make me BI (not that a label matters to me much), if it makes her happy, that's what makes it okay - even cool.
I realize that these MMF/FFM situations may more often than not be D/s so much for the people involved, but devices used to get bi-curious people to experiment and possibly come out. That's not the issue.
My questions:
* Is this common in a D/s environment/scenario?
* Has anyone (male or female) been involved in such a senario - a D/s thing with a straight sub engaging another of the same sex?
* Did everything work out okay?
* Who craves this, who would submit and why?
* Is this an example of unreasonable pushing of limits?
While I have no desire to suck a cock and though I haven't been there/done that, discussion of such a scenario with a certain someone over the past year has resulted in my realization that I am among that group that would submit, given the right circumstances. I think my desire to please someone I care for and trust to such a degree is stronger than any negative feeling I might have about such a situation.
An no, I am not BI. Before anyone brings up the "walks like a duck/quacks like a duck" thing, consider this: Not everything is done for ourselves. I don't see anyone that normally doesn't like to be shot with a gun but still taking a bullet to save someone else being considered suicidal rather than heroic. Granted, it's a pretty extreme comparison, but there is more kinship to that analogy than the quacking duck one. My view is that submitting to my SO's desires in such a case does not make me BI (not that a label matters to me much), if it makes her happy, that's what makes it okay - even cool.
I realize that these MMF/FFM situations may more often than not be D/s so much for the people involved, but devices used to get bi-curious people to experiment and possibly come out. That's not the issue.
My questions:
* Is this common in a D/s environment/scenario?
* Has anyone (male or female) been involved in such a senario - a D/s thing with a straight sub engaging another of the same sex?
* Did everything work out okay?
* Who craves this, who would submit and why?
* Is this an example of unreasonable pushing of limits?