Shadowsdream
Dream Maker
- Joined
- Apr 29, 2002
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I am wondering if anyone has come into contact online or in real time with Fictional Dom/me syndrome..as I call it!
example...
A prior trainee of Mine had an online friendship with a woman for many months.
One day he told her about his submissive needs and sent her to My web site. She immediately saw a future on the FreeWay to a free ride at the expense of someones need. She informed him that she was a Mistress. She would accept him as her slave. Never even met the guy!
Within days she is spending weeks at a time living in his home. Having him buy her gifts and wait on her hand and foot. She didn't know a crop from a toothbrush but she was dominating enough to put the cuffs ( his ) on his wrists and make love to him.
That was about all he got in return for supporting her new fantasy.
Well not entirely! This vanilla woman decided to add to her cam site a new set of facts. She suddenly introduced herself as a Mistress and began adding the links to all of the BDSM friends he had introduced her to.
The longer he supported her the less she dominated him. Submission was no longer an option and to make a longgggg story short he finally had to tell her it was not working. Now you would think that would be that. O no..now vanilla really kicks in...she became his stalker..using her web site to more or less identify *him* as a player. Of course that was not enough and so the next step was to publish a new page dedicated to how she could have made him the slave he needs to be...IF he asks her to.
She published his pictures and the link to his home page. Clearly identifying him.
Only a phone call to her at My direction has caused her to remove his pictures and the link to his site.
This is more common than submissives are often aware of and those wanting so desperately to be owned in real time are often blind to the red flags.
example...
A prior trainee of Mine had an online friendship with a woman for many months.
One day he told her about his submissive needs and sent her to My web site. She immediately saw a future on the FreeWay to a free ride at the expense of someones need. She informed him that she was a Mistress. She would accept him as her slave. Never even met the guy!
Within days she is spending weeks at a time living in his home. Having him buy her gifts and wait on her hand and foot. She didn't know a crop from a toothbrush but she was dominating enough to put the cuffs ( his ) on his wrists and make love to him.
That was about all he got in return for supporting her new fantasy.
Well not entirely! This vanilla woman decided to add to her cam site a new set of facts. She suddenly introduced herself as a Mistress and began adding the links to all of the BDSM friends he had introduced her to.
The longer he supported her the less she dominated him. Submission was no longer an option and to make a longgggg story short he finally had to tell her it was not working. Now you would think that would be that. O no..now vanilla really kicks in...she became his stalker..using her web site to more or less identify *him* as a player. Of course that was not enough and so the next step was to publish a new page dedicated to how she could have made him the slave he needs to be...IF he asks her to.
She published his pictures and the link to his home page. Clearly identifying him.
Only a phone call to her at My direction has caused her to remove his pictures and the link to his site.
This is more common than submissives are often aware of and those wanting so desperately to be owned in real time are often blind to the red flags.