James Blandings
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Two different munch groups in my area have announced that from now on they will be holding "protocol munches" and have posted rules to local based email groups. At these events all attendees must identify their role, and act accordingly. They've got a long list of the usual protocols, subs may not adress doms first, honorific titles must be used, etc.
Now, I'm sorry, but as far as I'm concerned, that's a public play party, and violates my standards of proper behavior. We in the BDSM scene do not want to be told what to do by vanillas, and in return, we have no right to shove what we do in vanilla's faces.
In addition, I cant think of a better way to scare away newcomers. The whole point of munches is to have a neutral ground where any interested party can come, meet people and learn about the lifestyle without having to worry about violating someone's protocol.
I really hope this trend doesnt spread.
Now, I'm sorry, but as far as I'm concerned, that's a public play party, and violates my standards of proper behavior. We in the BDSM scene do not want to be told what to do by vanillas, and in return, we have no right to shove what we do in vanilla's faces.
In addition, I cant think of a better way to scare away newcomers. The whole point of munches is to have a neutral ground where any interested party can come, meet people and learn about the lifestyle without having to worry about violating someone's protocol.
I really hope this trend doesnt spread.