monster666
COOKIE!!
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- Jan 21, 2002
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When I was an early teen, I discovered masturbation like almost every other boy my age. It was pretty cool, but what really got me worked up was being alone in the house long enough to rig cords over the shower curtains, around feet and hands and genitals in a manner that meant causing some hurt to untie things. I imagined a horde of "mean" women doing this to me for whatever reason - and I loved every one of them. Over the years all kinds of things the rest of the world would definitely not endorse as acceptable behavior - from small vice-grips to very hot topicals - were employed during self-play.
I haven't thought about this until lately; but in the process I've realized that my interest in things BDSM is not something I learned somewhere along the way in my adult life - it's something that grew out of my childhood. It's been part of me as long as I can remember anything of my sexuality - long before I knew anything of BDSM.
What gives with this? I wonder - how many others went through similar experiences as they grew up? And who else doesn't always play nice during masturbation?
I haven't thought about this until lately; but in the process I've realized that my interest in things BDSM is not something I learned somewhere along the way in my adult life - it's something that grew out of my childhood. It's been part of me as long as I can remember anything of my sexuality - long before I knew anything of BDSM.
What gives with this? I wonder - how many others went through similar experiences as they grew up? And who else doesn't always play nice during masturbation?