BDSM Newbie.....

Just wondered if any of you could help me out.....im really new to BDSM and know nothing about it!! So far i've looked at Novicum.com but are there any other site anyone can suggest for beginners?? Any help would be much appreciated......
Trix xx

Welcome to the BDSM Forum here at Lit, Trix. Here are a few of the newbie links we toss at those like you who come looking. If i might suggest a course of action?

Read.
Read more.

Come back to us with specific questions.

You'll find us willing to help as you learn more about what you want from the mass of choices that are all grouped under the BDSM umbrella.

Ok, so how do I go about learning more about the BDSM lifestyle?
http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=86462

Somewhat new to BDSM
http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=73405

Good info sites for those just coming to BDSM
http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=73517

Thanks for thise Cym...i have loads of questions but i hope the sites will help me with those!! If not i'll be back

Someone also recommended castlerealm.com but i can't seem to get to the site...maybe its down for some reason......

Anyways...your help is much appreciated honey

Trix xx

Heya Cat ya lil minx! I was wondering if any of my chat buddies frequented the BB...your the first one i've see so far!!

I'm trying to look at the guidlines of it all just now...reading about the submissives creed and stuff....lokks really interesting!!

Trix xxx

Trixie, please remember that what you read online may or may not be what happens out in the real world with regard to how we really do this stuff.

Chat room type BDSM bears very little resemblance to skin-to-skin BDSM. We don't do chat type stuff here, in this place. We have focused discussions. Our threads and conversations are definitely not without warmth and humor and caring and a definite sense of community, but they most surely are without the hyperbolic excess of smarmy mannerisms that characterizes most chat room BDSM places. Additionally, we try to stay pretty focused here and not have our threads devolve into meeting-and-greeting kinda idle chat things.

You initial choice of castlerealm.com is pretty good. We have other places to which we could point you, too, when you're ready to read further afield.

Thanks Cat.....

That would be excellent honey!!

Trix xx

I don't know if this was posted in the links thread, but I just found an useful place in my bookmarks for newbies like myself

http://www.wizdomme.com/infopack/

Wow thanks......thats the most informative one i've seen so far!

Trix xx

Okay, pull over there, missy. I am writing you up for excessive syllables in a 7 word stretch. Watch out for the other guy and slow down a bit, will ya? You are gonna hurt someone!

::ducking::

cymbidia said:

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