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This is kind of hardto write about... but for about a dozen years of my childhood various members of my family (male) sexually abused me, my older brother mostly, who would tie me up and leave me suspended, beginning when I was 6 yrs old, in the little playhouse in backyard. As this went on and he drugged me, let his friends use me, etc., it became almost natural to have these rapes occur, usually about twice a week but sometimes more.
I've often thought I have the words "fuck me" written across my forehead for the amount of times I've been forcibly raped...even by a priest when I was in the fifth grade.
ok my confusion is due to my desire to be tied, and left, (just like my brother did, though he denies it ever happened now) and teased... as my Dom uses me for his desires...which in turn makes me feel whole, horny and in such a state of rapture.
I see a therapist weekly, but have not brought up this subject as I don't want a psychobabble response!
You are real people here, of whom I have come to trust and consider as friends. Does anyone think that this correlation between my early childhood abuse and sexual choice to be submissive is really disgusting? I'm new to my relationship in D/s and have been really thinking, trying to discern if I am in the "right shoes" so to speak.
Perhaps I am a freak, I don't know.
Anyone have thoughts on this? sometimes i wonder if i ought to really be a Domme myself, to have more of a sense of being the one running the scene and thus empowering myself.
I guess what I'm ultimately wondering is whether I'm taking the role of a sub because it is one that I easily slip into...and maybe that is something to fight rather than allow...but being a sub turns me on so much ......
I've often thought I have the words "fuck me" written across my forehead for the amount of times I've been forcibly raped...even by a priest when I was in the fifth grade.
ok my confusion is due to my desire to be tied, and left, (just like my brother did, though he denies it ever happened now) and teased... as my Dom uses me for his desires...which in turn makes me feel whole, horny and in such a state of rapture.
I see a therapist weekly, but have not brought up this subject as I don't want a psychobabble response!
You are real people here, of whom I have come to trust and consider as friends. Does anyone think that this correlation between my early childhood abuse and sexual choice to be submissive is really disgusting? I'm new to my relationship in D/s and have been really thinking, trying to discern if I am in the "right shoes" so to speak.
Perhaps I am a freak, I don't know.
Anyone have thoughts on this? sometimes i wonder if i ought to really be a Domme myself, to have more of a sense of being the one running the scene and thus empowering myself.
I guess what I'm ultimately wondering is whether I'm taking the role of a sub because it is one that I easily slip into...and maybe that is something to fight rather than allow...but being a sub turns me on so much ......