lilminx
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I'm posting this here because although I'm not really involved in this lifestyle, I am highly interested in it and my pondering seems to be most appropriate for this forum.
Lastnight I was with a guy I'm dating. He does not really have Dominant tendencies, although I'm trying to get him more into certain things that would fit into the BDSM spectrum. While we were in the middle of things, he said that my ass was "his" and that I was "his". It turned me on immensely to hear him say that, and of course I agreed with him. I would have agreed with almost anything he had said after that- lol.
Thinking about it now, I'm a little confused about my reaction to his remarks. Do I want to be owned, at least in the bedroom? The idea of belonging to someone in certain ways is so appealing to me, yet I don't know exactly what I want. I guess in a way I'm confused about my needs and wants in these terms.
I don't really expect anyone to respond to this; I just needed to get it out of my system. Thank you for reading.
Lastnight I was with a guy I'm dating. He does not really have Dominant tendencies, although I'm trying to get him more into certain things that would fit into the BDSM spectrum. While we were in the middle of things, he said that my ass was "his" and that I was "his". It turned me on immensely to hear him say that, and of course I agreed with him. I would have agreed with almost anything he had said after that- lol.
Thinking about it now, I'm a little confused about my reaction to his remarks. Do I want to be owned, at least in the bedroom? The idea of belonging to someone in certain ways is so appealing to me, yet I don't know exactly what I want. I guess in a way I'm confused about my needs and wants in these terms.
I don't really expect anyone to respond to this; I just needed to get it out of my system. Thank you for reading.
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