boz
Really Experienced
- Joined
- May 17, 2002
- Posts
- 227
I have a question about Doms/Tops.
What elements go into the psychologial profile of a Dom?
I lack direct experience with either side of the BDSM world, though I have been to fetish parties where various aspects of BDSM were being displayed. I've also read various material (including O and the Beauty series) and on this board and elsewhere on the internet, but most material and information seems to be provided by subs or from the sub's perspective.
I'd like to have a better understanding of what's in it for the top. Why do various top activities give pleasure to the top? What psychological / personality traits are being satisfied or lead one to gain satisfaction from the experience?
What elements go into the psychologial profile of a Dom?
I lack direct experience with either side of the BDSM world, though I have been to fetish parties where various aspects of BDSM were being displayed. I've also read various material (including O and the Beauty series) and on this board and elsewhere on the internet, but most material and information seems to be provided by subs or from the sub's perspective.
I'd like to have a better understanding of what's in it for the top. Why do various top activities give pleasure to the top? What psychological / personality traits are being satisfied or lead one to gain satisfaction from the experience?