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My many colored days, a Dr Seuss book, is very much this minus sex plus colors.

Does he ever consider his own actions as a force on her moods, or does he feel himself separated by silence.

One cannot observe a system without forever altering it.

But I don't understand him. Does he have to be so passive or want to be?

I had to look that story up :) I see the resemblance somewhat. Sub/ Dom relationships are very complex and individual. Ultimately he knows the outcome of his actions, silence is something never felt and there is order and flow to everything.

He doesn't need to be passive because I required it to love him or have a relationship with him. He needs it because he is a 'man' all day in work and with those around him. Very high pressure to maintain a certain strength, a certain persona. He doesn't want that when he gets home. He only wants to please me and be under me in all things. Being told what to do with no questions asked, no decisions to make. Being kept in his place. I love him deeply and in this love give him what he needs, without judging, without questioning, simply loving him as he should be loved by me. As anyone should be loved.

Vanilla soul , sexually speaking : Freudian analysis puts importance on childhood experiences 'n infantile fantasies vis-a- vis the Mother as the Root of all sado-masochistic yearnings whereas we Hindus put mucho store by past Life experiences as a Root cause for behaviour , but both could be right @ the same time without any intellectual Ego-conflict !?!

thanks

Sigh, so damn old with so much left to learn. I really appreciate the response to my comment. Thanks, between this and Ashjsh's "Cruel Poem" - a real glimmer of understanding here.