by IvanMazlow
I've never really given much thought to BDSM other than to just skip over a story that involves it. Probably based on some negative sterotype I have about it. Very thoughtful essay. This makes me want to select some well-writen BDSM stories and see what it's about. Thanks.
I found this quite fascinating, especially as I have just read a book by Rosen Trevithick in which she examines two quite different attitudes towards BDSM; the abusive and two-dimensional 'alpha-male' activities of FSOG and a loving, sharing relationship which favours and magnifies the feelings of both participants.
You have effectively said in a more precise style what Ms Trevithick put into an excellent story. Thank you for your insight and clarity of thought. Four stars.
Thoughtful and real. Please keep sharing your thoughts and experience. With so many new to the interest feeding on the extreme fantasy and drivel often posted here, there is a desperate need for your sane thoughts.
It was SO funny! I'm still laughing at how bad it was.