All Comments on 'Oral Pleasures'

Your readers may assume it's okay to go from anal to vaginal contact. If they do so they risk giving their partner a serious infection, whether they are using tongue or penis. Otherwise, some good advice or in my case a refresher course.

quite a bit of details in here and a nice discussion that every woman is unique so you have to explore and pay attention to what you are doing to find out what turns the one you are with on at any give moment.

Mmmmm mmmmm mmmmm! Othbndy, you, good sir, should write a book!! I love your detail. You are spot on, from a female perspective!

I enjoyed the humor and similes you used, as well as the emphasis on detail. I think I'm in love. LOL You should SPAM this to the inboxes of all males on the planet who wish to remain sexually active :)

Licking ass is disgusting.

Men should be required to read this before dating!!!

Gosh! I WANT THIS GUY TO LICK ME.

I'm going to keep reading it but I was getting a bit bored by the end of the first page... you could have said all that much more succinctly.

For claiming that good sex, from the woman's perspective, only involves 15% physical actions, you sure spend a lot of time describing them in great detail.

THE most important element of sex is that each participant feels they are needed by the other partner(s) to bring about true bliss. We all want to we to be wanted, in whatever form our ministrations take.

Oral stimulation is an important aspect of sex, but does not only pertain to servicing the gonads directly. My wife can come from just from deeply sucking my tongue within her mouth. Who knew?

Effective stimulation may not include ANY oral component. Sometimes the right delicate touch of a finger on the right spot can bring a woman, or a man, more satisfaction than any other "sex" act. The best are those spots you didn't even know were that errogenous.

The point is - get to know what your partner(s) needs are. Experiment. It's the journey of discovery... not necessarily the end goal. Speaking of which, the end goal (presumably orgasm) is the RESULTANT effect of all forms of physical AND mental stimulation.

Bottom line - sex involves right things happening at the same time - mood, scene, WORDS, touch, intimation of touch, LISTENING, and a lot more must be just right. It takes planning, NOT just licking pussy or cock. The gonads should be stimulated LAST. FIRST, is the setting and proper devotion!