by K.K.
I disagree with the very ending of this chapter. Swinging, sharing, poly, you must be very open with your partner and harbor no secrets and few private thoughts about what you are doing. Everything has to be done “in the open” especially in a marriage or civil union. Otherwise jealously and regret can fester and trust dies.
Also, the financial quid pro quo is pretty offensive to me although I acknowledge that it might not be to others.