by budd100
Women can be "players" just like men...they're both the same kind of person. When a woman is a female player she is not with you for your benefit. She entertains you for her benefit and at her convenience. If she gave you more than she received then that would defeat the whole purpose of keeping you around. So her goal is to milk you for whatever she deems appropriate.
Here we are living in the 21st century, women are liberated and the expectation is to treat them as equals but we still have antiquated dating games. Men are expected to ask women out and and pay for the pleasure of their company and that can be quite the investment only to find out down the road she's been playing you and using all along. With these types of females you might as well hire a professional escort. At least they have the business acumen to treat you with respect and not ditch you in the middle of a date. Bad for their business reputation.
Healthy relationships are based upon reciprocity. Lopsided ones are toxic. Don't get sucked in, move on and don't waste your time or money.
Isn't this exactly what dating is for? To find out if the person is worth exploring a romantic relationship with? Clearly none of these women were. Incredibly immature, all of them.
That being said, I can really emphasize with the woman and the man in this comment section that got completely scared off dating. I hope I would react differently, but I can't honestly say that I would for sure. Oh, and I am glad that the woman finally found and took a chance on a worthy person in the end! That was reassuring.
...of similar stories.
And the comments -- especially the autobiographical ones -- were nearly as interesting as the story.
Well done.
5 stars.
Paul in Oklahoma
dump those sluts and move on. Remember you cant turn a whore into a house wife
It should be obvious that these women are sluts. Some people are just not able to comprehend the meaning of sticking to one person, whether it's on a date or in a marriage. These women all fell into the category of women who think their pussy is made of gold and that gives them the right to treat men however they wish. Unfortunately there are way too many women out there who have that attitude. The fact is that for every slut there are at least four good women who understand that men don't exist simply for them to toy with and fuck over.
There is an old country/hillbilly saying "Dance with the one what brung you" and some people never learn that.
... All three stories rang true to me. I had a similar experience: Back in the mid-70s, I was working in Bartow, Fl. during the week and driving back to North Miami on weekends. It was a 3 hour drive each way, that I was making to continue a relationship with Brenda. After leaving her a voice mail Friday evening asking to get together Saturday, she calls Saturday morning and invites me over for tennis and swimming. When I get there last nights date is laying in her bed with no shirt or shoes. Yes, there really are women this stupid. Panther fan.
women out there who are really this stupid? Neither of my wives are/were and don't recall ever dating a girl or woman who was this dense.
In more than one of your stories you use incorrect grammar. If you use a basic word processor, the spell and grammar check would check those. We was or they was are recurring examples and distract from your writing.
Three honest tales of men being used. Each tale the women were sorry and wanted to interact again. Not all women treat honest men like this but lucky for them it happened at the beginning. No harm done. Live and learn.
I assume that you meant Mobile when you said Aiport Ave >Its really Airport Blvd. Not Ave but you have to watch these older women in Mobile they are weird and need help. So unless you want to help them...stay away
I have read this story several and enjoyed everytime. I hope you post more stories in the future.
Boyd
So sad, now we can say that the girls found them lacking and then the blame would be on the 'victims', that means the guys, but then again one could ask why those women ever bothered to have a date.. Or we can accept that some people just simply stinks, and will continue to stink no matter what we wish them to be.. So beware of falling in love :) You'll never know, at least not until it's to late, right.. Yoron.
The stories sound like some rejections that I've experienced
I know it goes both ways, I know some lady friends that received the same treatment.
I can empathize a bit with these men. I've had a couple of experiences, although not as blatant as those described and I understand things like this happen across the gender spectrum. Nicely told - a theme that should be explored a bit more often.
This is top notch stuff. I have been in similar situations before, and I suspect it'll probably happen again. But, being social animals, we just keep on trying. Silly humans.
As they say, it takes all kinds! I haven't had any experiences as bad as these, but there are some wierd people out there. Several people have mentioned that too many people are egocentric - I have to agree.
The ladies I have been attracted to all have a fair degree of empathy.
Good writing.
It is so sad to see people treat others this way. I feel people should have the respect to treat others as they would like to be treated; but they think of themselves.
Many mature women, although perhaps they are really still immature!, are playing the "I am still desirable" game with men. They get a thrill from showing their newly interested companion that they are sought after by other men, perhaps to heighten interest. You see the same thing in High School, College, the work place and no doubt retirement homes or assisted living centers. Sad but true!
Each one of the things have happen to me. I work in a law office where I see all kinds of eye candy and many time I bite and get suckered in and then get rejected. When I let on that I was being made a patsy and wasn't going to stay. The looks can cut cement, I get away as fast as I can dispite the tears. What ever I bought or gave her is hers
all I want to do is get away.
writing is real and common sense.good work keep it up.
I had been dating this guy casually, but more and more often for several months. We were at a party on one of my weekends off. I turned around and he was leaving with some other female. When he called me a few days later he tried to claim he thought I had left first. It was amusing in some ways as he proceeded to dig himself deeper and deeper with every contradiction I caught him in. Like these guys I was not crushed but was hurt. If he wanted to date other women he just needed to have told me that.
After that I pretty much settled into a period where I had one date with anyone and that was it. No repeats. Fortunately one guy broke through my reserve and I ended up marrying him. Now I'm happy that other guy was an ass.
A very honest and straightforeward story about mature men trying to date in today's world. I've had many of the same experiences myself.
One of the worst dating experiences was, after 7 dates, the woman I was with went to a local restaurant where she hooked up with another guy and left. I got a call from her the next morning informing me that the guy was her husband, they were seperated and she was dating me to flare up her husband's competitive nature so they'd get back together. {sigh} Damn I had really fallen for that woman too.
Women...I've given up. I'm 51 now and I think it's better to spend my remaining years alone than put up with continual heartbreak.
This is very good storytelling. Although not erotic I enjoyed all 3 mini stories. Thanks.
I am not sure a "rating" is necessary,but I liked the simple
honesty of each story. It is sad to say these things happen
all over the world. A doctor friend of mine on the east
coast told story #3 (similar) to me and a local friend told
story #1. Very close to them.
I would have done the same thing these guys did. If something
were to happen to my wife, I am not sure if I would want to
venture out much. Who knows.
Very nice stories and well presented. Thank you.