Aaron1964Toronto

Recently changed username from SECRETDOM4U.

Have you ever given yourself entirely to someone?
Have you ever found yourself in a state where you are oblivious to the world around you? They ARE your world?
Have you ever found yourself wanting to please them no matter what they ask of you?
Have you ever found yourself nervous and yet excited about what they have in store for you next?
Have you ever found yourself doing things for them that previously you never thought imaginable?
Have you ever found yourself shaking with nervous anticipation when you know that you are about to be punished?
Have you ever trusted someone so much that your previous boundaries are becoming blurred?
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Reoccurring 'dominant' fantasies:
Taking my inexperienced sub out for an evening on the town where she will be forced to perform in public and with strangers.
Having my naive sub be the perfect hostess to a group of my friends, men and women.
Catching a sexy student cheating on her exam and threatening to have her expelled unless...
Having her sexy twin daughters under my control and using them to sexually satisfy my unknowing ex-wife as she is restrained and blindfolded.
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Reoccurring 'submissive' fantasies:
Being subservient in many ways to a group of women.
Going to dinner and dancing with my boss only to discover that she wants to be my boss after hours as well.
Being submissive to a woman who will use me as a tool on another couple.

ARE YOU READY TO BEGIN?
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I am a 59-year old experienced non-vanilla switch who lives in the greater Toronto area (GTA) of Ontario, Canada.
Unlike my younger selfish years when my whole sexual existence centred around my own personal ejaculation, I now find that my sexual excitement and satisfaction comes from bringing sexual excitement and satisfaction to the woman (or women) who submit to me or to who I submit.
I believe that a successful dom/sub relationship is one where first and foremost both the dom and the sub completely trust one and other. This takes time, so I am looking for someone who is willing to be patient and let things develop slowly.
As we both live busy "other" lives, both the dom and sub must accept the possible unavailability of the other at any given time.
In my ideal world our dom/sub relationship develops such trust that we can move our online sessions from emails/texts to audio calls and even better, to eventual video calls. But it goes without saying that for the latter, significant trust must be obtained first. I will not put myself at risk and I would hope that you would not either.
I do look forward to hearing from you. If you have any questions, do not hesitate to ask.