Hi, I'm Drumroll! And I'm a fuckwit! =D
Sincere, kind, loving, and genuine male person. However, don't let that fool you. I can be kinky and devious when the mood strikes and the connections click.
Not a new member, strictly speaking, been around this website off-and-on for almost ten years. Just decided to come back again, so I made a new account for a fresh start.
Open to short-term connections just for a night or a few hours, but open to longer-term and possibly repeat connections, if there's good chemistry. Try your luck! I'm here to explore and learn and discover. So let's work together to find something mutually enjoyable for both of us we can try. I am here to create with a willing and playful partner, not to monologue my fantasies to the chat. I'm very open-minded with few limits, but if you hit one, you'll hear about it. Open to all types of people to drop a line or say hello.
You never know what you'll discover in the hidden recesses of my brain. But here's a little hint:
I believe that love is the single most important human emotion that needs to be expressed and felt. Receive with open arms, open minds, and open hearts, the love others have to give to you, and give yours just as openly. You will make a better world that way by giving life to others. Practice mindfulness and yes, mindful loving when you can.
In chat, I will speak and banter with any and all. In PMs, I may be a little more picky. But hey, you're welcome to drop me a message any time and say hello. Especially if you think there's a connection and you'd like to explore further with me.
I don't strive to be a perfect or even amazing person. I strive to be me, and the best version of me that I can be. That may not be perfect. It may not even be amazing. But it's the only me I can be. I do try to be the kind of person that's a joy to be around, because that's my vibe. But if it doesn't always work out that way, oh well. THIS is my attitude/vibe set to words if you want a better explanation: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4hGS1DkMob8
I've learned one thing about life, and that is that nobody can love in the ways that I love. And so, if I don't get out of bed every day and live my life, the world will lose out on that. That's the thought that keeps me going every day. My love is special and needed to keep this world spinning round. And I'm determined to share it, even if it's sometimes imperfect and very messy.
Sometimes, I feel like this, but it's good to remind myself that it's normal, and I'm not: https://youtu.be/x6XAP_VThhk
YOUR love is special and needed by this world too. Nobody can replace it. <3
To be loved, is to have life. To love others, is to give life. To get, give first. Openly.
I value creativity and intelligence and wisdom in others. You will catch my eye if you express these traits openly. Also, be loving and kind and playful and open-minded! These are attractive in all persons.
You don't have to type like you're writing a book to me to get a response, but good language skills are definitely useful. If I don't reply, don't be offended. It could be that I am currently engaged with another member and wanting to give them my full attention. Or it could be that I have Lit open in the background and am not totally paying attention at the moment. Or it could be that I saw your message and am reading your profile at the moment. Give me a second and if I don't reply, you're welcome to try again later.
Yes, I definitely have preferred physical types and features, because we're all human and we ALL have those. So ask me if you're curious! But I don't like to make a big deal out of them, so even if you don't match them perfectly, or even at all, if you have other awesome and attractive qualities you are still very likely to catch my eye and make me happy.
Be your lovely and beautiful self when interacting with me, because you're special and unique and needed! I will absolutely appreciate and love that.
And after the last year on this planet, I hope that you please don't think this is funny: https://youtu.be/7XrxLMS04Ps
"How do you feel when you love somebody? The best thing in the world is love. And the people we love, are the ones we like to think about the most. Even, when we're not with them." - Fred Rogers
Gender
Male