Erica1974

Just your average married ex-soccer mom. While I enjoy chatting, please don't ask, "Why are you here?", "What are you wearing?" and other such nonsense. Also, if you don't have a profile either introduce yourself properly or don't waste our time. Otherwise I look forward to chatting with you.

I LOVE the outdoors - hiking and camping. My husband and I stayed at an "adults only" resorts for our last anniversary this summer. It wasn't a "real" nudist resort, just one pool and some beach area were set aside as "clothing optional". Once I got used to it I had fun flirting by the pool naked as my husband secretly watched (he didn't go nude though)! It was the first time since being engaged I'd been naked with any man but my husband but I didn't have sex with any of them. I'd never been another man since we got engaged so despite my husband's encouragement it was a bridge too far for me, at least then.

Though he had promised this was our "what happened at the resort stays at the resort", my husband spilled the beans when we got home. Our kids teased us about having a "mid-life crisis" but then our daughter made it known since she was 18 now she wanted to go with us the next time. Thankfully her older brother wanted nothing to do with it which was OK with me. After my experience I don't see any harm as everyone had been quite polite and there were other families as well. Most were "amateurs" like us so there wasn't anything like I'd expect at one of those Hedonism nude resorts.

So.... we went this past summer! Needless to say I wasn't surprised when he wanted to watch men flirt with me... naked of course. Only this time my daughter joined us! While for me the nude pool was something fun to do for a while, she practically lived there! All in all we had a great time.

Our resort experiences opened my eyes to what a boring life I was leading. So when my started us on a series of "firsts", I was more open to his ideas than I would been before. I think most of what we did would shock my friends but frankly at my age I don't really care what people say. After all these years it was quite a surprise to learn my husband liked watching me with other men so after taking some time at home to think about it, I decided why not do it at home. The BIG difference was at home I didn't just tease!