I'm an older married white male whose wife has lost interest in sex ever since menopause, which is a huge shame as she used to love sex. I still have very strong desires, and really miss all the great sexual times she and I shared, including times when others joined us.
We discovered that we were both bisexual, and we explored all the joys three people can have together. Those times were also where I learned I loved to sit back and watch almost as much as when I joined them... almost! :-) To this very day, I can still remember almost all the details of our "adventures" with others, and I enjoy sharing them when chatting with others online.
I also enjoy sharing fantasies, and desires. I'm extremely open-minded when it comes to anything sexual.
She is aware of my desires, and that I come here as well as other sites. She also "doesn't feel threatened by my meeting other men for sex as long as it's discreet, and STD free".
I was surprised to discover I tend to be sexually submissive with men, which is the exact opposite of how I usually am with females. Having said that, I do have to admit I have started fantasizing my sexually submitting to females lately too.
The "idea" of me being spanked, bare handed, OTK, while I'm naked is stimulating, but having never been spanked, I'm not sure if I would enjoy the reality of it, so it would have to be with someone I trusted would stop immediately if I asked.
Overall, I think I'm a nice guy that's almost obsessed with sex, and truly enjoy chatting with like minded others.
Location
MI