I have finally acquired the motivation to unleash the Dominant inside of me. The more I research the more comfortable I am with being one with my stronger base.
I am looking for a long term Dom/sub relationship. Something that will start of vanilla and slowly add more ingredients over time. I need to understand my sub well to be able to fully make the most out of her and the experience.
I am not into humiliation. I only want to get rid of specific bad habits and not rebuild a whole person. I want to know what is in someone's head and be able to capitalize on that both in and out of the bedroom for the betterment of the relationship and the participants. I taken an interest in Shibari and would eventually like to be highly skilled in the art.
I am a mental person, meaning I spend a lot of time going over stuff in my head. I like to pick things people apart to know how they work and see if they could work better in a different way. I only take risks I have at least some understanding about. I am a scientific sadist. I like to try things and see what I get. I like to have a method to my madness. Any variable are usually planned variables.
From my reading, my personality would lean more towards a Daddy Dom. I am not so much into the little aspect, meaning I really don't want to play with someone who acts like they are younger than 12. I prefer just to be a father figure, mentor, and guide. Right now I don't have any intentions of having more than one sub.
Location
Paw Paw WV