I'm a man in my fifties. Been married 25 years, divorced for 10. My spirituality includes a lot of "earthiness". At this point in my life relationships are very important to me, but so is my need for freedom. I am only responsible for my half of any relationship. I choose to have peace in my life. No fights, no dramas. Just not interested. At this point I am learning to ask for what I want (or seem to need) and at the same time learning that "no" is a very acceptable answer.
Location
Finger Lakes, New York State