SadisticHealer

I’m a Reiki Master (healer) on a shamanic journey. I’ve found the primal experience involved in Power Exchange and play to be an extremely spiritual and rewarding connection.

As a consensual, sensual, ethical sadist - I enjoy pushing the limits of my partner. . . I thrive on the discovery of my partner and her needs as well as the connection that allows us to fully explore the ecstasy hidden in the dark recesses of our minds.

Yes. . . partner. I believe that for me a solid D/s or M/s relationship is a partnership. In the power exchange there is a balance, and equality. It is the exchange - the cycle of energy that makes it work. She can not give unless I take and if she is unable to accept what I give the circle isn’t complete.

I’m a white, male, heterosexual Dominant. I don’t switch. I understand that everyone has a path. I have great respect for those that have found their’s and are exploring it. If in your exploration you feel that you need to occasionally top your partner then I’m not the person you’re looking for.

If you are “experimenting” or “curious” or are just looking for kinky sex you will easily find someone on alt that can fill those needs for you. I congratulate you on taking new steps and pushing your limits but if you can’t submit completely – mind, body and heart and give yourself to a man that will guide, control, mentor and nurture you then you should look elsewhere.

If you think you know exactly what a D/s relationship is. . . if you have a set understanding that is not changeable, if you don’t believe that every BDSM relationship is defined by the people in it and not by books or other peoples rules, then I’m probably not someone that you will find that with. I’m not talking about limits. . . limits are good. . . I’m talking about expectations . . .

It’s my belief that a relationship in this life is a constant exploration of one’s self and one’s partner. It is a journey of trust and discovery. Both parties must be willing to give themselves completely to the other and be open to everything their partner is willing to give.

Any expectations or concepts that are set in stone allow no room for growth in any relationship.

I work in the entertainment industry. In my free time I enjoy many outdoor activities as well as films, theatre, museums and galleries. I have a dry sense of humor and I laugh a lot.

I enjoy travel. Lately most of my trips involve either healing or BDSM gatherings and workshops.

I am a man/child. . . a man that loves to explore his sexuality, that can both control and comfort his partner. . . a child that loves exploration and discovery, that loves toys and play in a grown up context. My mind can reel in a walk through the hardware store and finding new uses for generic items. . . discovering new ways to bind, restrict, and play.

In a perfect world I’d already have the LTR that I seek. . . in the meantime. . . I meet people, I play and am enjoying a good life.