I've been around Literotica off and on for years and have recently returned. I was a collared irl submissive for 3 and a half years so I really don't prefer to chat with boys or pretenders.
As time has gone by, talking with the pretend Doms here who will drop to their knees in a heartbeat for some attention, I realize I'm comfortable in a dominant role but only because it entertains me. I am a submissive at heart. If the right Dominant would come along, I would offer myself back into submission without hesitation, because that is where my heart and soul lie. If you find this confusing, welcome to my life.
P.S. I'm the ED of a small non-profit and we deal with dysfunctional people all day. I used to come to Lit to escape from that. Lately, it's just a continuation of my work day.
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