I'm in my early 50's and single. I enjoy the erotic side of life but I am definitely not into anything extreme (if you have to ask what I mean by extreme then likely it is). I do like a good chat and yes, it does not have to be erotic in nature. I'm a fairly open and blunt person though I'm not a knuckle dragging Neanderthal. If you are curious about the nick, the pure comes from one which was given to me years ago when I was in a chat and definitely naïve about the whole online thing, the 'pm' comes from the fact that I'm mostly online in the evenings, and the 451 comes from one of my favorite books. I do hop rooms occasionally to explore and if I do send you a private message and you might like to chat feel free to respond but if you don't want to just be polite and say no thanks.
Location
Western PA, USA