by Oldbear63
What about sperm , sexual energy , emotional love , psychological guilt ...........and so much collateral damage ?!?!?
I was trying (albiet poorly) to convey how my attitude toward this type of thing has changed. I can clearly see how some idiot can end up with two wives. The difference is that I hope I am finding a way to maintain two relationships with the understanding of both and to avoid the collateral damage. But I expect that sooner or later there will be more hurt.
Yeah... I don't think there's a way to avoid the collateral damage... Hurt is inevitable in these types of things. You always hope you're not the one getting hurt, but sooner or later or all the time, it will happen.
Good luck, my friend.