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Is this about love or control, I wonder? Many things about human male/female interactions are not as they would seem on the surface. The teasing, manipulation that many writers cast as foreplay, is that what it is really about or is it exerting control and thus dominance. It seems to me that loving and dominance are strange bedfellows at best. The "love" shown by dominants / dominance is more akin to the husbanding of treasured and other livestock or acreage, not the life/partner love of a human for another or even a few other humans.

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In the movie "Schindler's List" Schindler convinced the German camp commander that he could easily demonstrate his life and death power over the inmates by choosing not to kill them. The German commander realized that even if only he was aware of the choice, no one else mattered.

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The same distinction is true in love relationships. People who are dominated can often be convinced or browbeaten into accepting it or even thinking it is a good thing. People who are not dominated require no psycho management at all to be happy in a relationship.

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<I>-- srgeek --</I>

While sleeping with her husband, she dreamed of her lover. He was so big and strong. she rubbed her clit thinking of him...She began to softly moan not realizing that her husband was wide awake... He had heard her moan before. Tears materialized in his eyes as he knew what she was dreaming about, after all. several times she had moaned softly her former lovers name in her sleep. He knew what she was doing... He moved a little, she stopped fingering herself. Then felt her husbands loving arms envelope her. He softly whispered into her ear... "Remember dear. what that bastard did to you when you refused to runoff with him...He put you in the hospital... Don't you remember the beating he was giving you when I walked through the door and stopped that bastard... Yeah, he had a super big cock. way bigger than mine... You loved him so for the things he did to you sexually, but you knew, He was just using you. A man who loves you wouldn't have sent you to the hospital. It was I that took you to the hospital and as they were getting you ready for the surgery, You promised to never cheat on me ever again... And then, You did... again... That's why we moved here, to remove that temptation away from you... and it breaks my heart that you still desire that bastard... And you know, I didn't do it to him. I didn't put that bastard in the ground, another irate husband did." She turned around under his arm. she too was crying as she quietly told him "Thank you for being there for me."