Center of Attention - Female

This is a sexual party game for two or more couples; three to five couples is probably best. One female is the Special Guest who will be the Center of Attention. If a group of couples plays the game repeatedly, the role of Special Guest should rotate. If a male becomes the Special Guest, there is a somewhat different set of rules--closely parallel, but different. The Special Guest may be chosen in advance, or chosen by lot after everyone arrives.

This game was inspired by a great short story that is apparently no longer in print. It had the nude arrival of the person who gets all the attention, the coffee table, and the taking of turns. All the rest is my own invention, much expanded and elaborated from the original.

Everyone invited should review the rules before agreeing to participate; you don't want anyone surprised and backing out halfway through the evening. All players need to be open to experimenting with both dominant and submissive roles. The Special Guest certainly has to play as a submissive; the other players will mostly be dominant.

All rules can be modified to fit the comfort level of the players; whole rounds can be omitted. Females who cannot deal with same-sex contact can choose to be observers rather than players. Those who choose to be observers must completely strip and fondle their pussies, keeping them open and wet throughout the evening. They can rejoin the action in the Finale. The Special Guest cannot refuse all same-sex contact unless all other females choose to be observers.

The group can agree, or the Special Guest can request, that particular tasks be omitted from the list. The group can agree that all tasks will be halved, or doubled, or whatever. They can agree to a cap on the total number of strokes in the impact play part of the game, or the total number of strokes on the same body part. This set of rules provides a structure, and enough detail to completely guide a game, but details can be changed. The players and the Special Guest are in charge of their own game. Just keep in mind that if you omit too much, and especially if you beg off tasks after being assigned them, you quickly begin to miss the point.

As the rules are written, the Special Guest cannot refuse any task. Even so, she should have a safe word. If she ever uses it, she and the rest of the group should then decide how to proceed without ending the game.

Other players can refuse tasks, but only if they accept a penalty. That penalty escalates as the game progresses, and eventually becomes severe; it is intended to deter players from refusing tasks. Player's partner must perform the task that was refused, in addition to taking his or her own turn. If both partners refuse the task, each is subject to double the usual penalty for that round.

The game calls for group nudity and lots of sexual contact, but it does not call for full sexual intercourse with anyone other than each player's regular partner. That rule should be changed only by unanimous consent obtained well in advance of the party; no one should be pressured to go beyond the rules on this point, or forced to decide on short notice. If this rule is changed, the group should obviously think about using condoms.

The hosts should review all tasks well in advance and have all necessary equipment on hand. All equipment is readily available on Amazon, or at kinkstore.com, or at your local hardware store. But some of it is pricey; all players should chip in. You need the following items on hand. You won't need all of them, but chance will determine which ones you use.

1 pair of standard six-sided dice and a hard surface to roll them on

1 leather collar with D-ring

2 pairs of leather wrist cuffs with D-rings (one for Special Guest and one for the legs of the coffee table)

2 pairs of leather ankle cuffs with D-rings (one for Special Guest and one for the legs of the coffee table)

4 double-ended snap hooks for linking cuffs to each other, to chains, and to a spreader bar

1 pair of tweezer-style nipple clamps

1 pair of clover nipple clamps

1 pair of Abacus Vise or similar nipple clamps

1 light, stingy flogger

1 heavy flogger

1 riding crop

1 leather slapper

1 single tail whip

1 wooden paddle

1 cane

1 Wartenburg Wheel

1 pair spiked gloves

1 Hitachi Magic Wand or similar vibrator

1 violet wand or similar electric stimulator

1 strap on cock, not larger than life size

1 36-inch spreader bar

2 short lengths of chain, available at hardware store

1 heavy duty eye hook for anchoring to ceiling (can be omitted; there's a work around)

1 short step ladder for reaching the eye hook

1 or more containers of lubricant

1 bottle of antiseptic mouth wash, with cups for separate use as needed

1 sturdy coffee table with four legs at the corners, the right size to support the Special Guest

1 recliner or easy chair

1 double, queen, or king size bed

One more important supply: the Special Guest should have an enema before the game begins.

A. Preliminaries: The Cocktail Party

Getting Ready

Dress is business casual for men and cocktail dresses for women, preferably on the revealing side. Each female player, definitely including Special Guest, should shave or neatly trim her pussy. She can leave hair above her pussy or not, as she chooses, but nothing should screen or block the view of the pussy itself. Each male player should take a Viagra or a Cialis shortly before the party; early and persistent erections are a good thing. Sooner or later in this game, everyone is on display, and no one should conceal or minimize what they have to display.

Invitation Time

If Special Guest is chosen in advance, she should arrive either nude or nude under a robe. She should remove the robe as soon as it is safe to do so--in the car, on the front porch, just outside the door of the apartment, or just inside the door of the apartment. Leave the front door unlocked so that Special Guest and her partner can enter on their own; no one should have to let them in.

If Special Guest is chosen by lot, she should strip completely as soon as she is chosen.

All guests should arrive at the appointed time, except that if Special Guest is chosen in advance, she and her partner should arrive somewhat later, to ensure that everyone else has arrived before them. She should enter the main room on her partner's arm, or on a short leash attached to the D-ring on her collar, wearing at most only a leather collar, wrist cuffs, and ankle cuffs. The party begins as an ordinary cocktail party, with drinks, hors d'oeuvres, and one naked guest. Alcohol can reduce inhibitions but also reduce performance later; don't drink too much.

Invitation Time Plus 60 Minutes

It's time for Round One. You can start sooner if people are too impatient, or too nervous to carry on a conversation. But don't start before Special Guest is ready. Allow her time for some food and drink and a bathroom break.

Place coffee table in center of room. Special Guest lies on her back on the coffee table and drapes her arms and legs over the sides. Anchor her wrists and ankles to the bottoms of the table legs with the two sets of wrist and ankle cuffs.

Each couple, except for Special Guest and her partner, rolls the dice once to number the couples. Highest roll becomes Couple One, next highest Couple Two, and so on. Roll the dice a second time to break ties. Special Guest and her partner are the last couple. Couples take their turns in order; each couple can choose who goes first within the couple. Special Guest's partner goes last in each round.

Each player gets one roll of the dice, and performs one assigned task, in each round. Follow the instructions for the number you roll. Perform all tasks with intensity and passion; do not hold back. The instructions may sound mechanical, but the execution of those instructions should not be mechanical at all. Numbers with substantial odds carry easier tasks; numbers with low odds are more challenging.

If you are playing with only two or three couples, and if the same number is rolled twice in the same round, player should roll again, to ensure a greater variety of tasks. If playing with four or more couples, do not roll again unless the same task comes up for a third time.

Most instructions are written for opposite-sex couples. Adapt as necessary, as illustrated in Round Two instructions for a roll of 2, if a lesbian couple or a gay male couple participates. If an instruction to recruit your partner applies to Special Guest's partner, he (or she) should recruit the opposite sex partner from Couple One.

If instructed to French kiss Special Guest after kissing or licking her pussy or her ass, it is important not to wipe your face before the kiss. Part of the point is for her to taste and smell her arousal.

Critical rule for all rounds: Male players must be careful not to come until it is their turn in the Finale Round. Slow or pause whatever you're doing if need be, but finish the task, and finish without coming. If any male comes before the appointed time in the Finale, suspend the game and anchor him as planned for Special Guest in Round Three. One female player delivers 25 strokes on his ass with a wooden paddle, and another female player delivers 25 strokes on his cock and balls with a heavy flogger. Neither should be his partner if two women are available without her. He can continue to participate in the game to the extent that he is able to get it up or draws tasks that do not require an erection.

Special Guest is free to come at will after Round One, and other female players are free to come at will in any round.

Important safety rule: Any cock, strap on, or finger inserted in an ass should be washed with soap and water, after completion of all instructions for that turn, and before being inserted into a pussy or used to stroke a pussy in any later round or turn. Any tongue used to lick an asshole should be rinsed in antiseptic mouthwash before being used to lick a pussy in any later round.

B. Round One: Mostly Lips and Tongues

Special rule for Round One: If Special Guest comes at any point in Round One, keep doing what you're doing until assigned task is finished. Then immediately hit her pussy 5 times with the tip of a riding crop. Ten times if she comes a second time during Round One, and 15 times for each additional orgasm in Round One. She can come as often as she likes in Round Two and later.

Penalty for males who come remains in effect. The penalty for refusing a task in Round One is 10 strokes on pussy or on cock and balls with a light, stingy flogger and 10 strokes on ass with a leather slapper.

2 Unhook Special Guest's ankles from the coffee table and pull her feet up to her shoulders, ass and pussy in the air. Recruit two players to hold her in that position. Lick her asshole 20 times. Lubricate middle and index fingers and insert them into asshole as far as they will go. Stroke them in and out 10 times. Let her feet back down to the floor. French kiss Special Guest and offer the two fingers for her to suck, one at a time, 10 strokes each. Unless you are her partner, going last, reattach her ankles to the table.

3 Suck on Special Guest's nipples if necessary to make them erect. Attach tweezer clamps to nipples and tighten them as tightly as possible. Recruit partner to yank the clamps 20 times while you lick clit 20 times; partner must be careful not to yank the clamps off. French kiss Special Guest. Leave the clamps on for the rest of Round One.

4 Lick Special Guest's clit 25 times. Go directly to clit. No preliminaries. Then French kiss Special Guest.

5 Plant 20 kisses all over Special Guest's body. No two in the same place.

6 French kiss Special Guest 5 times. Then suck each nipple 5 times while fondling outside and inside of pussy, ending with multiple strokes to clit with your finger.

7 Kiss Special Guest on the lips 5 times.

8 French kiss Special Guest 5 times. Then suck each nipple 5 times.

9 Suck each of Special Guest's toes, one toe at a time. Lick between each pair of toes.

10 Lick or kiss outside of Special Guest's pussy 5 times. Then lick inside of pussy 20 times. French kiss Special Guest.

11 Suck on Special Guest's nipples if necessary to make them erect. Attach tweezer clamps to nipples and tighten them as tightly as possible. Recruit your partner to yank the clamps 10 times while you lick Special Guest's clit 10 times; partner must be careful not to yank the clamps off. French kiss Special Guest. Remove the clamps.

12 Stand in center of group and remove all clothing; remain nude for the rest of the evening. Stand over Special Guest's face, your face towards her head, squatting as necessary, and offer cock or pussy to her mouth. Special Guest sucks player's cock 20 times, taking it as deep in mouth as possible, or licks player's clit or inside of pussy 20 times, reaching tongue as deep as possible.

C. Round Two: Mostly Cocks and Pussies

For Round Two, untie Special Guest and move her to the bed. Leave her untied so that she can take different positions for different tasks. Leave the cuffs and collar in place.

Special Rules for Round Two and later: If any male player is not sufficiently erect to perform assigned task, Special Guest should suck his cock until he is ready and able.

If Special Guest is not sufficiently lubricated to comfortably perform assigned task, the player assigned that task should lick her pussy and clit until she is ready and able. If any other female player is not sufficiently lubricated to comfortably perform her assigned task, a male player other than her partner should lick her pussy and clit until she is ready and able.

Penalty for males who come remains in effect. The penalty for refusing task increases to 20 strokes on pussy or on cock and balls with a heavy flogger and 20 strokes on ass with a wooden paddle.

2 Recruit your partner to assist. There are now two players in this task. If either or both are still clothed, stand in center of group and remove all clothing; remain nude for the rest of the evening. Male partner sits on edge of recliner or easy chair. Lubricate his cock. Special Guest puts cock in her ass and slides all the way down on it, her back to his chest. Both lean back and Special Guest spreads her legs. Female partner kneels in front of chair and licks Special Guest's clit 30 times. Then both players lie on backs on bed; Special Guest says thank you by licking clit 35 times and sucking cock 10 strokes.

If partners are a lesbian couple, substitute strap on for cock; Special Guest licks both clits, 35 times each. If partners are a gay male couple, only one cock goes in ass, but suck both cocks 10 strokes.

3 If still clothed, stand in center of group and remove all clothing; remain nude for the rest of the evening. Suck on Special Guest's nipples if necessary to make them erect. Place clover clamps firmly on each nipple. Then sit on edge of recliner or easy chair. Special Guest puts his cock in her pussy and slides all the way down on it, her back to player's chest. Both lean back for maximum exposure of cock and pussy. She rides player up and down for 25 strokes. Yank the clamps 25 times; be careful not to yank them off.

If female, perform this task with a strap on. When finished, remove strap on and lie on back on bed, with legs spread. Special Guest shows gratitude by licking pussy and clit 30 times. When all parts of task are finished, remove the clamps.

4 If still clothed, stand in center of group and remove all clothing; remain nude for the rest of the evening. Lie on back in center of bed. Special Guest kneels astride player and takes cock in pussy; they fuck for 25 strokes with her on top. She sucks her juices off the cock.

If female, perform this task with a strap on. When finished, remove strap on and lie on back on bed, with legs spread. Special Guest shows gratitude by French kissing player, fondling pussy, and stroking clit 25 times.

5 If still clothed, stand in center of group and remove all clothing; remain nude for the rest of the evening. Lie on top of Special Guest, in missionary position. Insert cock all the way into her pussy, but do not stroke. Let it remain there passively. French kiss her 10 times and suck each nipple 10 times.

If female, perform this task with a strap on. When finished, remove strap on and lie on back on bed, with legs spread. Special Guest shows gratitude by sucking each of player's nipples five times and stroking clit 20 times.

6 If still clothed, stay that way. Roll Wartenburg Wheel all over Special Guest's body, from head to toe, taking care to cross each nipple 10 times, outside of pussy 10 times, inside of pussy 10 times, and clit 10 times.

7 If still clothed, stand in center of group and remove all clothing; remain nude for the rest of the evening. Lie on bed on back, legs spread. Special Guest kneels between legs, with her ass and pussy in air, and sucks cock 20 times, going all the way down, or licks clit and inside of pussy 20 times, reaching tongue as deep inside as possible.

8 If still clothed, stay that way. Zap Special Guest's body with a violet wand, hitting all fleshy parts from chest to sole of foot, taking care to zap each nipple 10 times and outside of pussy 10 times. Insert wand into pussy and zap 3 times.

9 If still clothed, stand in center of group and remove all clothing; remain nude for the rest of the evening. Special Guest lies on back on bed. Player rests on hands and knees astride her in 69 position. Player licks Special Guest's pussy and clit 25 times while Special Guest sucks player's cock, or licks player's pussy and clit, 25 times. Special Guest and player exchange the top and bottom positions and repeat the 25 sucks and licks.

10 If still clothed, stand in center of group and remove all clothing; remain nude for the rest of the evening. Special Guest rests on hands and knees in center of bed. Player fucks her pussy from behind, doggie style, 25 strokes, then offers cock for her to suck off her juices.

If female, perform this task with a strap on. When finished, remove strap on and lie on back on bed, with legs spread. Special Guest shows gratitude by licking pussy and clit 25 times.

11 If still clothed, stand in center of group and remove all clothing; remain nude for the rest of the evening. Suck on nipples if necessary to make them erect. Firmly place clover clamps on each nipple. Recruit partner to yank the clamps 25 times, being careful not to yank them off, while first player fucks Special Guest in missionary position, 25 strokes.

Ask Special Guest if she wants the clamps yanked off or left on. Explain the consequences of each choice. If she says yank them off, lick her clit to climax and have your partner yank them off as she comes. If Special Guest says leave them on, leave them on until the end of Round Two.

If female, perform the first part of this task with a strap on. When entire task is finished, remove strap on and lie on back on bed, with legs spread. Special Guest shows gratitude by licking pussy and clit 30 times.

12 If still clothed, stand in center of group and remove all clothing; remain nude for the rest of the evening. Special Guest rests on hands and knees in center of bed. Player fucks her in the ass, 20 strokes; then she sucks his cock, 20 strokes.

If female, perform this task with a strap on. When finished, remove strap on and lie on back on bed, with legs spread. Special Guest shows gratitude by licking pussy and clit 35 times.

D. Round Three: Mostly Whips and Paddles

Restrain Special Guest vertically in center of large room, with ample room around her to swing whips and other instruments without obstruction. Ideally, her arms should be over her head, anchored by chain to a hook in the ceiling. If that is not possible, hook her wrists to short chains, and have two players (whose turn it isn't) hold them out horizontally. The essential point is that her arms should not get in the way of what ever is being done to the rest of her body. Hold her legs wide apart with a 36-inch spreader bar.