by loving_hubby
Spicing it up like so many other things is just a stupid euphemism for cheating, and whatever form. Since marriage is a union of a husband and wife, and the wife has decided to cheat mentally if nothing else, at that point the marriage is broken and there's nothing to spice up, is there? Don't play stupid word games, you're going to talk about cheating then just talk about cheating. Call it what it is. Own it.