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Most women *claim* they know how to suck cock really well. As a woman, I KNOW I like to know I'm giving my partner what he wants, and through trial and error, as well as many conversations with me I have come up with what most men agree are the perfect behaviors for a woman performing fellatio.
First and foremost, take the time to appreciate and enjoy a man's penis, it's a beautiful piece of anatomy, the skin is incredibly soft and sensitive, the shape, the feel of it in your hand, the soft texture of the head against your tongue. Appreciate how sensitive the head of his penis is and enjoy his desire to share that part of himself with you.
Most women think "I'm giving myself to him" but they don't stop to think that MEN are giving themselves to us also. Appreciate that. Yes, men tend to have more partners than women, but that doesn't negate the fact that he is still giving himself to you and TRUSTING you to have his very sensitive cock in your mouth with your very sharp teeth! Once you realize that most men are very sensitive about their size and shape in relation to other men, then and only then, you can really learn how to give a good blow job.
1. Be in the mood to please him orally. If you aren't really into it, he's going to know and it's going to diminish his experience. As much as you want him to WANT to eat your pussy, he wants you to want to suck his cock.
2. Take your time; get into a comfortable position where you can get the best angle with his cock. Make sure you're in a good angle for the particular man by seeing if you can deep throat it from the first position you chose. If you can't, rearrange yourself! Men appreciate your desire to move yourself into the right position to please HIM. Just as much as they move around when they are reciprocating. Some women can't deep throat a larger cock and that's ok with men, they know it and love that you are willing to try!!
3. Once you find that right position, give him a quick suck, gently, draw your mouth slowly down his shaft as far as you can without gagging yourself, and then slowly come back up. Place your hand around the shaft gently and hold it in place while you give him a cute, coy grin. Let him know you are enjoying him! No matter how big a man's ego, he needs to be reminded he's wanted and that you LIKE his cock.
4. Ladies, really, if they wanted you to stroke them off, they would ask you to just stroke them off. Men want to feel your mouth, not your hands, sliding up and down their shaft. A little stroking by hand is ok, but don't focus on the hand job, focus on using your mouth. You may find having a hand around the base of his shaft helps you, but you still have a spare hand. Run your hand up his tummy to his chest, down his thigh, sometimes even grabbing his ass with your spare hand will excite him, as if you are pulling his hips towards your mouth.
5. Change things up, tighten your lips around his cock, loosen them, as you pull the cock to the edge of your lips, run your tongue around the tip of his cock, look up at him, and make eye contact. Then slide your mouth back down and take his cock as deeply into your mouth as you can. Don't just repeat the same actions over and over again. We like it when they change things up and they like it when we do the same thing. MAKE EYE CONTACT OFTEN. It's a complete turn on for a man to see you looking up at him while his cock is in your mouth!!
6. DON'T GAG YOURSELF!! Men (unless they are into BDSM) don't like the sound of a woman gagging on their cock. It's not sexy, it's not a turn on and it makes them feel bad. You do not want to ruin his mood by gagging yourself. If you push yourself a little too far and do gag a little, pull yourself back and give him a little shrug, as if to say "oops." Make sure he knows it was you, not him that caused it. Men don't really like to hurt their partners (again, unless you're into beds).
7. Stroke, suck, lick and pay attention to his scrotum also. Don't focus solely on the cock, there are other very sensitive parts of the male anatomy, if you KNOW he likes you to suck on his balls, do it. Really, you're already down there so what's the difference? Now, if your jaw is getting sore, pull your mouth away and kiss his tummy, nibble a little, slide up his body allowing your bare chest to rub against his and kiss him, push your tongue hard into his mouth, be aggressive. Men LOVE this. As much as they normally like to have a degree of control (even non BDSM types), they also love a woman who can get a little aggressive. TALK TO HIM, TELL HIM YOU LOVE SUCKING HIS BIG STIFF COCK as you slide back down and take his cock back into your mouth.
8. Not all women enjoy the feeling of a man cumming in their mouth, but, men LOVE this. It is an incredible degree of intimacy to have him orgasm in your mouth. Swallow, seriously....men LOVE it! It isn't going to hurt you or make you sick, it's not bad for you and it makes him feel incredible. Men are trained from a young age to think cumming on a woman's body is so "hot," but in all truth, they would rather enjoy the feeling of cumming in your mouth and you swallowing it.
I can't give you exact details on how to give the right blow job to every man you may come across, but I guarantee that if you follow these simple rules you will find your partner will LOVE the attention you are paying to his cock and he will KNOW you are enjoying him. Keep his ego strong and make sure he knows you love pleasuring him as much as he loves pleasuring you!!
- COMMENTS
Dinocashalmost 12 years agoThank you for an accurate account of men's interests in getting a blow job.
My wife needs to read this and probably a lot of other women.
Our usual encounter consists of my spending a lot of time helping and satifying her.
Her reaction is often more like - lets get this over with.
Ruins the mood!
Anonymousalmost 15 years agoTwo unrelated comments. Don't forget the prostate as some men like anal stimulation and some women have semen allergies. I dated a woman who got severe diarrhea after swallowing so no matter how much she might want to swallow, the end result wasn't worth it. C'est la vie.
Lawlietalmost 15 years agoQuite some interesting advice, though, as a suggestion, when it comes time for a guy to cum, it should really be up to him where he does it; since a blowjob is about pleasuring him, it should be wherever he finds it most erotic, especially as some guys are so visual that seeing his girl's face or breasts covered in his cum may be that little push he needs to get it up again right then and be ready to go. Though, personally, I also find the image of a woman's throat swallowing accompanied with the sound of gulping extremely erotic. It really depends on the guy.
As far as the comment about women not liking it, here's a piece of advice for you: that same comment could also apply to a guy and eating pussy. Most guys hate it (I'm not one of them) with a freaking passion and the only way they'll do it is if they know they're going to either get a blowjob after, got one before, or they're going to get something really special, like anal. Not to mention, you really can't bitch about taste, ladies, since when he cums, you can just do a quick deep throat, the cum never touches your tongue, so you don't even taste it, whereas all a guy uses while eating a woman out IS his tongue. Bottom line is, if you don't like it, learn to (this goes for the guys, too).
Romantic1almost 15 years agoSome men like the to be "slobbered" over - that is turning the cock into a very wet rod. Thus, feel free to experiment with your saliva, leaving copious amounts on the rod as you pull free occasionally, perhaps with strands of the spittle hanging between his rod and your mouth. Smile and look in his eyes, then recapture it all as you start again. // My partner will also occasionally bring her vibrator into play, running the humming device around my sack and rod as she alternates with her mouth and her own humming. // Lastly, and not to be dismissed, is to bring a third party into the party, another female that can share in the wealth and also do lewd and lascivious things as the two of you pleasure your man. I enjoy it so when one uses their mouth and the other their hand as she whispers 'dirty talk' to the two of us - very stimulating. // Enjoy all.
Agoodman954almost 15 years agoThis tutorial is great advice for every woman who wants to please her man. It should be required reading. I would also like to add to the list of thing you can do. All of these work well for my wife Macy when she gives head. A soft hum or moan of pleasure from you will send sensations through his hard cock that her won't soon forget. That's not to say you should hum the Star Spangeled Banner, however on the 4th of July it might be nice. Another thing that you can do is while you are taking a breath break from your head bobbing, softly tell him how good it feel to have him in your mouth, and how much you love it. Last but not least tell him you want him to cum in your mouth while looking up at him from between his legs.... Or better yet ask him sweetly... Will you cum in my mouth please? ... Please? Just be ready to start gulping cum if you do that, because he is going off like a roman candle. Well that all I have to add. I hope every woman reading this takes the combined advise and tests it out, if they do there will have many more happy men out there.
Anonymousalmost 15 years agowith this is that you seem to think all women should give blowjobs no matter what! Sure there are lots of women who love doing it,even some who say they like the naughty little thrill of going down on there knees and unzipping a mans flies. But some women hate it! And some will do it but only let the man cum on her chest and skin,not in her mouth! You have to except that some women just dont like it!
Anonymousalmost 15 years agoVery good "how to" points on performing fellatio. I found your detailed descriptions very erotic to read. One thing I would suggest, that many women seem to fail to talk about, is the attention paid to the head of a man's cock. I personally enjoy the attention a woman shows to the ridge and slit of my head when she is teasing me with the tip of her tongue. Great read! Thanks so much. RCG
Anonymousalmost 15 years agoJust a couple of more thing I'd like to add as a man. When you slide up to kiss him pause for a moment and rub the head of his cock on your nipples. I know I find it very erotic. You may even enjoy it too.
About allowing him to cum in your mouth. To give a really great blow job you absolutely must allow him to cum in your mouth and you must swallow.
Think how you would feel if he had just eaten you to an organism or two and he suddenly jumped up grabbed a handful of tissues and spit into them and wiped all your juices off his face. That is pretty much how he may feel if you do the same.
His cum may be a little acrid tasting but it will soon go away. A swallow of wine afterwords will fix that very quickly.
Just a hint for the ladies. After you swallow his cum crawl up and give him a deep kiss. If he turns away resign yourself to the fact you have just had a one night stand. Any guy who will not kiss you after you have just swallowed his cum sure is not someone who you want to spent any time with. Should he pull you tight and give you a lot of tongue then you may have a keeper.
A pretty good tutorial.
Mike S.
