The Boyfriend Test

Another case of a woman refusing to accept responsibility for HER actions. This was made obvious during the final talk hetween the MC and Cara. She is the one who behaved inappropriately, yet she blames her ex future husband for reacting to it.

"It didn't mean anything (to me)" is the worn argument of cheaters, and it betrays the egocentricity of these people, in this case Cara. It says as clear as day "I'm entitled to my feelings, thoughts and opinions and they are important. Your feelings and opinions are worth shit unless they are the same as mine." It's the same claim for the prerogative of interpretation, fetched from thin air, that many self proclaimed liberals use to camouflage their intolerance towards people with divergent beliefs and ethics.

Good story. Great ending!

A JPB winner!

5

This story is an excellent read. Women think (or an engagement or a marriage causes them to think) that conduct they would never have done nor things they would never have said (BEFORE the engagement or marriage), are now ok simply because she wants to do or say that. IE dance with an ex whose hands are holding her by her butt and in front of an audience. This story perfectly illustrates the new actions, infidelity and conduct and lack of morality she expects to be tolerated. In this story it was the woman’s huberous that caused her relationship to end.

Frank thinks that he has morals, and he does .... they're just bad ones!

But then, so does everyone else in this story.

its obvious the whore cara was cheating from the start .

shouldnt have communicated with her at all after , that was weak to do so .

3 stars

The pro-Cara people are full of shit. It’s not what happened that’s a problem. It’s that by her own admission she “never once thought about how you would have looked at it.” Plus the fact that she lied through her teeth right to his face when confronted. She needed to be tossed to the curb.

Another nomination for the "Best of JPB" list.

This is one crazy story. Definitely a 5 for the idea.

Cara was not a cheater. She might have been behaving bad but understood her error. Yes, she was right he would be suspicious of her and maybe she maid the right decision not to marry him. Her going back to her old boyfriend has nothing to do with him, but showed her state if mind afterwords.

Backy is definitely a cheater and he done good dumpibg her.

Betsy is a special case. He got her husband's approval and due to the special circumstances he could stay with her. Accusing her that she will cheat on him, as some of the comments say, is ridiculous. Not every man/woman on the road is a cheater. It depends in the type of person you are. Betsy got into bad marriage. Not her fault and she played the cards she got. She stopped it once she got the insensitive to do aom until than it did not cost her anything to help a friend. Both she and her husband agreed the piece of paper saying they are married is only for show.

What a lame brain.He dumps his girl friend for dancing with an old boy friend,but marries some one who cheats on her husband.How does he he know she is not shagging around on her horse delivery trips,like she did with him?.Once a cheater always a cheater.

What a lame brain.He dumps his fiance for dancing with an old boy friend,but marries some one who cheats on her husband.Once a cheater always a cheater,how does know what she gets up to when away from home?.

And who's to say she won't still cheat on him while she is on the road?

Have seen several comments calling Frank a cheater. When he slept with, first Becky and then Betsy, he did not know that either of them was married. He clearly told Becky that he would have dinner with them, go dancing with them but he would no longer sleep with either of them, since both were married. He did NOT ACCEPT Becky's explanation that Betsy's husband was OK with her playing and that she Becky, gave her husband all he could want so it was OK for them to play. Finally, if Cara could get back with Anderson and shift in with him, she would probably have kept him as a standby, for the first time there was trouble in the Frank/Cara household.Frank made the right choice, after Cara decided she couldn't live with him (Frank). Good story.

And he ends up fucking two women he knows practically nothing about. And they're BOTH married. I would think that that fact alone would have blown up any chance he had of trusting them or ever being with them, regardless of what her husband says on the telephone. And by the way, how did he know it was her husband and not just a friend of hers helping her cheat? No this whole deal stinks to high heaven. He has two more cheating wives on his hands and I don't see any possible way he continues seeing them, let alone consider marrying one. I get not marrying Cara. She's never going to be honest with him or with herself. But your ending was just awful. He needed a new job in a new town, far, far away. UGH!

1 star

The choice was his to make. What he wanted and not hers, young and not letting her make his life into what she wanted. He could find someone who wanted him for him. All he had to do was look and be able to hear.