Twenty Questions 2021

I don't know how much stock you put in Anonymous comments; but I would like to give some feedback. I like to think of these comments sections as a "book club" of sorts where the stories/works are discussed and I really liked some of the responses to this work since they were more thought out as if discussing your answers with you.

First, I want to say I have enjoyed your writing style, and the interactions between characters, and while some people may criticize the dialog, I find it flows well, in general. I also like, from the first person perspective, the rationalization that is used and find in most cases it has a good logical basis. I wish our fetishes overlapped more because I really enjoy your stories and would love to read more of your stories that appeal to me.

Second, I would like to make a comment on the racism issue. Before I start, I in no way mean to influence your work one way or another. In fact, I like your style as it does have an appeal to me. I struggle with this issue in my own writing/fantasies (although these will never see the light of day). The BBC myth is in my opinion racism as well defined by a previous anonymous responder as it stereotypes and minimize people. However, while not derogatory toward the black male, it is often used to be derogatory to the white male (If one believes that white people can be victims of racism, which I do). The underlying intent being that the smallest black man is bigger than any white man or at least such that one can make that judgement call by skin color alone (i.e. characters which are "black cock only".)

I know a lot of people liken the preference for black men as being similar to a preference for blonde hair which I can understand to a point. But when blondes are preferred because they are characterized as always having bigger boobs or tighter pussies or better in bed than I think this crosses the lines. But this doesn't usually happen. I haven't read any stories where a guy becomes "blonde only" because of how tight her pussy was. Or a story where the black guy is the same size or smaller than the hubby, but the wife still pursues "black only" because she prefers the skin color. (Maybe these stories are out there and I'm just haven't come across them)

(Although the derogatory "dumb" blond or "dumb" women stereotype is scattered through many stories on Literotica.)

Whether racism is acceptable in fantasy (shared fantasy) can be debated. I struggle with this myself on what is acceptable for who I want to be as a person. That argument aside, there are many philosophies along the lines of using racism. I think it is important in some of the cuckolding fetish works, as not only is the husband being cuckolded by the black stud, but the implication that any black man could/should cuckold the husband, and on wider terms, the black stud is cuckolding the whole white race by turning her to "black cock only". I think this "superior race" aspect drives to some people's humiliation fetish while also for some it may drive the competitive procreation theory. Either way, these fetishes are enhanced (in my opinion of course) by a flavor of racism.

As far as the use of "Asian" being racist, I guess I'm not convinced, It seems using black or white would be equally racist as these terms cover a large number of distinct cultures, which in America may be melded together but would be more apparent in the motherlands. or the large number of black cultures that get brushed over by saying black. Even being more specific, such as Indian or Chinese, would still seem a little racist wouldn't it, since there are numerous cultural differences even within these countries.

Finally, I think there is also something to be said for characters of a certain race which have stereotypical features but are intended to be an individualized but have that feature , For example, the black man that talks like a pimp. There are individual black men that may talk like a pimp (fitting the stereotype) but shouldn't be defined by the stereotype. It is difficult to write wanting to have a specific black man that talks this way without seeming to imply he is just a stereotype. How do you tell a story where the character has a specific quality that a real individual person might have but it is a stereotypical quality to that race? A black pimp persona may be arousing to people and therefore most fantasies may include that persona but is not intended to stereotype the race. A gloryhole blowjob or beach party sex or whatever may be more arousing with a similar, rough, abusive type male persona in every story rather than having a more refined "Are you enjoying that penis, ma'am" type guy thrown into the occasional story, especially when contrasting the roughness of the black man with the character of the husband/boyfriend.

Sorry for such a long comment,

I enjoyed reading your answers. It is nice to learn a little about the writer behind the amazing stories! Thanks for sharing!

And one of your responses in question 2..."No doubt... one of the biggest midlife crises of many men is questioning their sexuality after the frustration of four decades trying to perform like a man in a man's world."....truer words have not been spoken! I can certainly attest to that!

610. I certainly have more respect for your writing after reading your end year revelations. I didn’t realize that you had many stories under creation and some waited for some time before release. However, I still prefer that the stories begin and end all at once. It is just so hard to read part of a story that obviously needs a completion and then having to return time after time trying to see if there is a continuation. Also, I disagree with your statement that your grammar is good. I consider much of what I read not to be good grammar, but I realize it may be that way to fit the storyline. I also feel that if you truly need an editor or more than one, they should do a better job in correcting grammar and typos. You fooled me into thinking that the mistakes were typing typos, but I think you said you actually write these stories on you computer and iPad, so I guess the errors are in fact just that and uncorrected. Maybe some of your scores would be better if the proofing were better.

I don't know why was this necessary.

Really liked this. Gave me a better understanding of you. Thanks for writing it