Twenty Questions 2022

Twenty Questions 2022

Summary: Jasmine answers questions from readers... again.

Thanks to Tex Beethoven for editing this essay.

Note: If you want to read the previous versions they are, in order of release:

2017: Twenty Questions

2018: Twenty-One More Questions

2019: Twenty-Two More Questions

2020 Twenty-Two Questions Again: Lists

2021: "500 Stories": A Look Back (an illustrated marathon look at my first 500 releases)

2021: Twenty Questions 2021

Twenty Questions 2022

I. It has been over 600 stories (number 600 came out at the beginning of December), and you have been writing erotica for over a decade. Does it still carry the same thrill it used to?

Interesting question. You might already know that when I started writing, I just did it for myself. Then when I started releasing stories, I did it for fun. But as time went on and I became more popular, I began feeling some pressure, and it increased.

I don't mean that happened in any real or concrete way, but I began to feed off the scores I received, and the amounts of reads and comments I'd started attracting.

I have long since quit worrying about those three... status symbols I suppose you could call them... since they are quite superficial, especially the scores and read counts, which I will go into in more detail about in question IV.

With that all said, I still love writing.

I enjoy the usual weekly releases.

I enjoy seeing how a new story does... this year being a roller coaster ride of highs and lows in the successes and failures of my stories.

I mean, no one likes being told they are repetitive, or they have crappy dialogue, or they should quit writing and die... but for each of those slams, I receive a dozen positive comments (and all authors, myself included, love reading those. I'm not saying I mind thoughtful criticism, because I do. But please bring something to the table... which some readers do). So, next story you read by any author that you enjoy, please leave a comment, send a message.

So, in conclusion on this topic. Yes, writing never gets old for me, although it often gets more challenging... which is why I write in a variety of genres.

II. As a woman, do you find the 'freeuse' concept exciting? What are your thoughts on freeuse?

Freeuse is weird.

Kinky.

But weird.

I do find the concept exciting, but being a female, I prefer the concept when it is set up with some logical rationale. Almost very one, in fact I think each and every one (that I've seen on video) was just unexplained sex... with no meaningful explanation of how it came about, no plot set-up... and that to me is what turns me on... the set-up... the foreplay... how did the characters come up with the freeuse concept and decide to adopt using it? That would be nice to see. Which is why my few freeuse stories have always included a set-up.

By the way, in a relationship, freeuse is an interesting idea... and if you have a trusting, loving spouse, I think it could be very healthy for a relationship... I mean I love when my man bends me over the kitchen table and fucks me, pushes my head down on his cock while he is driving or watching football, or goes down on me in the shower. These encounters are exciting... passionate... full of sexual adrenaline. Surprises like these can keep the fire burning, even after after years of marriage.

On the other hand, whenever I'm not in the mood, I'm not in the mood.

III. Is writing more a hobby for you, or a sexual event?

I think I understand the question.

It started as a hobby, and in essence it still is a hobby. I write for fun, I don't make much money off of it, although who knows? Maybe some day I will release some of my stories in book form.

As for it being a sexual event... tricky.

I usually start writing not feeling horny at all, and then I gradually get turned on by what I'm writing (which is maybe a bit twisted... since I have no idea whether other writers get turned on by their own work... I would think they do).

But I resist coming, since once I do... I've often lost my motivation to keep writing... at least for the moment.

This year has been a challenging year. Some cancer, luckily caught very early on and now in remission; some family issues that are still going on; aging, quite frankly... so at times I have gone for long periods of time without writing at all, since I literally lost my sex drive for weeks on end... which had not happened since the first time I gave birth (more about my cancer in question XIV).

Luckily, I had a lot of stories in the can to coast through those down times (I usually have at least 10 or more completed stories sitting in the queue).

IV. What advice do you have for someone just starting to write?

To save time for those readers who have already read it, check out my July 2022 release: TIPS TO WRITE EROTICA & GET READERS. Below are the chapter titles (for lack of a better term) of this How To Essay.

ONE: WRITE WHAT TURNS YOU ON

TWO: CHARACTERIZATION

THREE: WANT LOTS OF READS? WRITE ABOUT INCEST

FOUR: TITLES MATTER... A LOT

FIVE: TAGS MATTER

SIX: WRITE IN A VARIETY OF CATEGORIES

SEVEN: WHICH NARRATIVE

EIGHT: THE BUILDUP

NINE: THE SEX SCENE

TEN: BE THICK-SKINNED

ELEVEN: LENGTH

TWELVE: SEQUELS

THIRTEEN: BE ACTIVE

FOURTEEN: PATIENCE

FIFTEEN: DO THE CONTESTS

SIXTEEN: CATEGORY EXPLANATION

SEVENTEEN: GET AN EDITOR

EIGHTEEN: MY PROCEDURE

NINETEEN: PUT YOURSELF IN THE STORY

TWENTY: HAVE FUN

V. What is your most popular story?

A tricky question, since the answer to what is considered to be the most popular is greatly skewed by how you're defining the term.

One answer depends upon how many reads a given story has attracted to date. I have 18 stories in Literotica's list of the top 250 of all time, which is based solely on each story's number of reads. (I'm not necessarily bragging here, since the longer a story has been posted, the more reads it has had time to attract). These numeers as of Dec 20, 2022)

14. Backseat Mommy (6,942,497)

53. Pet Mommy: Becoming a Mommy-Slut! (3,008,818)

61. Accidental Gangbang (2,911,465)

70. Family Affair: Backseat Sister (2,738,960)

117. Best Present Ever: Bitch Sister (2,108.072)

118. "Stocking Tales": Office Submission (2,091,590)

119. Blackmailed: Cheerleader's Cherry (2,083,274)

137. A Sister Surprise (1,891,828)

140. "Mom & Daughters": A Family Affair (1,867,560)

147. "A Shemale Submission: A Lust Story (1,846,052)

159. "Mom & Son" A Love Story (1,767,314)

164. My Best Friends Hot Mom (1,751,681)

167. Daughter's Initiation Into Incest (1,747,207)

171. Backseat Mommy: Ass Fucked (1,732,260)

176. Big Fat Cock: A Hot Mommy Seduced (1,712,364)

184. What Mom Doesn't Know Fucks Her (1,681,401)

212. "Taking" My Sister's Virginity (1,589,236)

229. Bedding the Babysitter (1,533,324)

So what can be learned from this list? Backseat Mommy is by far my most read story... more than double my next closest one. Its score though, is only 4.63, which doesn't even qualify it for inclusion in my top 100 by that measure.

Accidental Gangbang has a score under 4.50 at 4.48, but it's one of my stories that have garnered the most comments and sequel requests... which I did end up dong a few.

When I began researching this list, I had no idea My Best Friend's Hot Mom was even on it, and truthfully, I couldn't even remember writing the story, until I went back and read it again. Also, in truth, it isn't all that good... and yet it attracts a lot of reads... apparently many people like to read about having sex with a friend's mom (which makes me wonder how many of my son's friends, if any, ever think about me that way. Or, for that matter, about my daughters).

Many of my stories are illustrated, which means they get a lot of "reads", for which I'm using quotation marks, because lots of those reads are likely people just scrolling through the pictures.

On the other hand, if you're judging 'most popular' by the average score a story's readers have given it, almost all of those 'top' stories are completely different ones. And while I tabulated this list, much to my surprise, my top three scores were all released during this current year: 2022 (plus 15 Ways written released Nov 30th also lands in the top 10 and the latest chapter of Big Fat Cock: Egged On lands in the top 20). Here are the top 50 scores (ignoring my 20 question essay series, which are all in my top 50, I believe, or close to it... but being essays, they are a different beast). Based on stats on Dec 20th, 2022.

1. Fate of the Fishbowl (4.87) Lesbian

2. Prostate Awakening (4.85) Gay

3. Trans Sister (4.8) Trans

Trans Summer (4.84) Trans

Sexual Sissy Awakening (4.84) Trans/Crossdressing

6. Hypnosissy 07: Glory Hole for Nerds (4.82) Gay

Sorority MILF's Day 03 (4.82) Lesbian

Lez Awakenings: Halloween Hijinks (4.82) Lesbian

9. Willow's Way Ch. O4 (4.81) Celebrities & Fan Faction

15 Ways to Seduce a Step Mommy (4.81) Incest

She-Male School: A Teacher Seduced (4.81) Trans

Becoming a Lesbian Slave Ch. 02 (4.81)Lesbian

OnlyFamily (4.81) Incest

Hypnosissy 11 (4.81) Gay

15. What Mom Knows Fucks Her in Vegas (4.80) Incest

What Mom Knows is a Family Orgy (4.81) Incest

MILF Seductress: Pre-MILF (4.80) Lesbian

Lez Discovery: A Church MILF Pet (4.80) Lesbian

Bedding the Babysitter Ch. 03 (4.80) Lesbian

Willow's Way Ch. O5 (4.81) Celebrities & Fan Fiction

Spiced-Up Marriage: A Big Surprise (4.80) Fetish

Bedding the Babysitter Ch. 09 (4.80) Lesbian

Big Fat Cock: Egged On (4.80) Erotic Couples

24. DARK Submission: A Bisexual Journey (4.79) Interracial

What Mom Knows Fucks Her Sister (4.79) Incest

One Night on Hedo Island (4.79) Group

Kinky Tales: I Pegged my Husband (4.79) Anal

Lesbian MILF Seductress: Nurse (4.79) Incest

Daddy Daughter Date Days (4.79) Incest

Love at First Suck (4.79) Mature

31. Big Fat Cock: Educating Mrs. Walker (4.78) Fetish

Lesbian Seduction: A Stockings Tale (4.78) Lesbian

Freeuse Niece: Trick or Treat (4.78) Incest

Mom's Tantric Massage Ch. 03 (4.78) Incest

Sorority MILFS (4.78) Lesbian

Willow's Way Ch. 07 (4.78) Celebrities & Fan Faction

Hypnosissy 04: Cum Cravings (4.78) Fetish

Debutante MILF Lesbian Submissive (4.78) Lesbian

Pillow Princess Club (4.78) Exhibitionist & Voyeur

Mom's Tantric Massage (4.78) Incest

On the Job: A Wicked Love/Lust Story (4.78) Mature

Bedding the Babysitter Ch. 08 (4.77) Lesbian

Hypnosissy Ch. 09 (4.78) Crossdressing

44. Fall of a MILF: A Submissive Tale (4.77) Lesbian

Mom's Tantric Massage Ch. 02 (4.77) Incest

NylonParty: Christmas Initiation (4.77) Lesbian

Church Girl: Best Friend Turned (4.77) Lesbian

OnlyFamily Ch. 02: First Blow Job (4.77) Incest

49.Book Club Orgy (4.76) Group

Hypnosissy 01: Becoming a Cocksucker (4.76) Fetish

Making Porn: A Mom & Son LUST Story (4.76) Incest

2 Mistresses: Pet Training Day 03 (4.76) Lesbian

What Mom Knows Fucks Her In the Air (4.76) Incest

A Sister Surprise (4.76) Incest

Big Fat Cock: Eating Asian (4.76) Group

What Mom Knows Fucks Her Mom (4.76) Incest

Sorority MILF's Day 2 (4.76) Group

Willow's Way Ch. 02 (4.76) Celebrities & Fan Fiction

Church Girl: A Virginity Taken (4.76) Lesbian

A Perfect Fall 2020: College Sub (4.76) Interracial

"A Shemale Submission": A Lust Story (4.76) Illustrated

What do I glean from this?

Well, first, my Backseat Mommy series does not have a single story in my top 50 by score. In fact, the highest score of any of the stories in that series is the most recent one, at 4.74... the rest are only in the 4.60s or 4.50s.

If you go by the number of chapters (e.g. how many sequels I decided to write), you can deduce that the What Mom series, the Bedding the Babysitter series, the Hypnosissy series and Willow's Way series are my most popular... interesting that each of those series is in a different genre (which I think is cool). On the other hand, all three Sorority MILF chapters and Mom's Tantric Massage are in the top 50.

Also, another interesting insight... the only illustrated just climbed into the top 50. I really have no explanation how people who read illustrated vote, as some of my best stories, in my opinion, are in that category.

Another insight for you new writers... I have a wide variety of categories in my top 50. Which I believe means if you want to attract lots of readers, you needn't target the most popular genres, just give the ones you're most comfortable with your best shots.

Another insight that surprised me, is that almost all of my top rated stories are trans, gay or lesbian... none of them incest until this year a couple hit the 4.81 and 4.80 (both stories released in the past 30 days, so we will see if they can hang that those high scores).

Yet another insight, since apparently I'm gathering a lot of them from this exercise, quite a few stories I had forgotten about or were one-off stories are on this list, like DARK Submission: A Bisexual Journey, Lesbian Seduction: A Stockings Tale, One Night on Hedo Island, Love at First Suck, Fall of a MILF: A Submissive Tale, On the Job: A Wicked Love/Lust Story, Making Porn: A Mom & Son LUST Story, and NylonParty: Christmas Initiation.

One more surprising insight, Catching Mommy is a series that had, and perhaps still has, a cult-like following, with many readers rooting either for Olivia or Victoria to win their battle for dominance; so much so that I ended up writing three alternate endings for the series. Then later on, I added an illustrated version from the mom's point of view, which doesn't show up on either list (but does in my most comments count). Go figure. Sometimes I literally don't understand my own data.

I could continue on and attempt to analyze the most comments and most favourites tallies... but I think in the end, it all just depends on what you like.

That all said, my highest rated story ever is, without a doubt, also my best written story ever: Fate of the Fishbowl, so there is that.

VI. What new kinks did you discover this year?

I don't know if I found any new kinks, although I have watched more NOT MY GRANDPA videos than I should have, for reasons I can't explain.

I have also watched more trans videos this year, but alas, almost all of them lack a plot. I mean why can't there ever be a porn clip where the girl or guy who discovers the girl has a dick, usually a large one, doesn't act surprised?

I think PureTaboo has the best writing... I just wish more of the scenes included nylons LOL.

But my go to videos tend to be from Girlsway (especially the Mommy Girl series) and SheSeducedMe.

VII. I know you write about it often, but would you ever really sleep with a student?

I could lie and reply of course I would... but... truth be told, it would be extremely unlikely.

Yes, while I entertain and write about my fantasies of being seduced by a cheerleader, by a shy nerd, by a black girl, by a black guy and many more... I would not cross that line.

In part because I have never cheated on my husband, but much more importantly because secondary school students are very impressionable and vulnerable, and there are reasons it is called fantasy.

On the other hand, if a graduated and grown former student seduced me... well... I'd probably be a very good girl.

VIII. Do you actually enjoy anal sex?

I don't recall whether I addressed this question in an earlier essay... and I'm too lazy to go back and look.

So, my answer is both yes and no.

Yes, when I'm in the mood... usually after a few drinks. I even have some desensitizing cream to help me to get started, on top of excessive lube. According to Babygirl and Daddy (yes, they are a real couple) who make the pot lotion described in my very popular Mom's Tantric Massage series, so that is a real thing... but alas in Canada, it is not yet legal... go figure. I have discovered pods are legal, but I'm unsure whether they have the same effect as the lube. I tried them once, to very little effect.

Next time I visit the United States, I am definitely going to try and bring some home.

But no, more times than not overall, anal sex isn't very satisfying. For instance, I have never come from anal sex... not even gotten close... but my husband likes to do it on occasion, and so I do it because I love him, and I am relatively submissive to him. Fortunately, he knows I don't love it, so he always preps me well for it with expensive wine!!!

On another hand, I love watching anal sex scenes. I love watching a cock slide in and out of a nice tight ass. I can't explain why, but I find it so fucking hot.

Of course, the more taboo something is... usually the more I get turned on.

IX. I love you on Twitter. Who are some of the other people you recommend?

Here are some I really enjoy:

BNWORASING for wicked black dominating white and other racial groups. Quotes like this one in a wicked interracial video will have your pussy leaking or your cock throbbing: The refugees have conquered your daughter! Be warned the tweets can be edgy.

devochkaSsever is a redhead in pantyhose. She is literally a dream come true... redheads being one of my many sexual kryptonites. Lots of heels and pantyhose-clad feet. PS: This one is work appropriate to look at too.