The hermaphrodite song I referenced in this story is Zwitter by Rammstein. The lyrics and English translation can be found here. https://herzeleid.com/en/lyrics/mutter#zwitter
I write erotic sci-fi featuring nonhumans. There's also a fair amount of genderbending, mostly within my VR Ventures series. Regarding VR Ventures, feel free to ignore the chronology and read the stories in whichever order you prefer--and avoid any that you think won’t appeal...