Being reading the fantastic stories on lit for many years now but am relatively new to chat here.
I'm open and very honest (if you can't be honest here where can you be???) and expect the same, though understand that for some escapism and fantasy is what draws them here.
What I have learnt whilst chatting is that I struggle with r/p unless I know the person a little before we play, that's not to say I can't but certainly give a more polished performance if we've got to know each other a little first!
I enjoy cyber more than r/p as I like to know it's really happening, that I am giving someone real pleasure.
I am not into BDSM but if I were to be described in that genre I would say I am most definitely a switch - I can take the lead and be quite dom with a lady who likes to step back and have her man take control; similarly I can be quite sub if a lady likes to take control.
The most important thing to me is politeness, honesty and mutual enjoyment.
Hope to chat soon...
Location
Yorkshire, UK