Mild-mannered bureaucrat by day, with a perpetual glint in my eye hinting at the dirty mind that never rests. I work with words for a living and toy with tawdry text for fun. Married for over 15 years, but nonmonogamous throughout, activity level varying depending on a lot of factors in the rest of life. I’ve had more than my fair share of adventures but always interested in more. At some point, I learned that I look good in a suit, and that sock garters are a gentleman’s accessory.
A pansexual, kinky, versatile switch, what turns me on the most is other people’s enthusiastic pursuit of pleasure in all its forms, and I enjoy helping others get off while exploring their interests. Some days it’s good to be selfish and indulge my own interests as well. What role I take in any given situation really depends on the individual interpersonal dynamics, and what sort of mood I’m in - I’ve very much enjoyed both submissive and dominant roles in different contexts.
The range of my interests and experiences I think improves my writing, although most of that has been spinning stories for chat partners over the years, and then refining those messages into unfinished and unpublished drafts… but in admitting this that may change things, we’ll see.
I read voraciously and sometimes am in the mood to make new friends and chat.
Location
West coast of CanadaGender
Male