As of September 2004 (latest revision of this Bio), submissive to my mate for 24 of our 29 years. Much of the past year has had me wrestling with self-doubt: is this D/s experience really a good thing? I'm sure it is a feeling common to anyone involved in it. Latest story (soon to be submitted?) is about resolution (for now, at least) of that issue.
Other than through ocassional email discussions, which protect our identities, we have kept our special relationship a secret. We have two beautiful college-age daughters (no longer at home), whom we recently discovered do know about our secret, although we had suspected they had some sort of vague idea. It is far from something we engage in continuously (we are both too busy!). For us, it makes up little islands in our relationship where we sometimes go to play with a much greater degree of intensity than normal. I, the submissive one, am much more drawn to it than my mate.
I am fascinated by the diversity of stories in Literotica. Some of the writers are especially impressive--they seem to have a special sensitivity when dealing with that subject. In submitting my own BDSM stories, I can only hope to emulate their efforts. Contacting me on being a submissive, or anything else, is welcome. I love to converse with others about these subjects. Sorry, I'm just too busy for chat--email will have to do. Also, story feedback is most welcome from any perspective.
Location
Northern Ohio