SeasideDreamer

I am bi-curious...

I've found that I enjoy D/s, and/or DD/lg (though i'm not really into age regression play). I lean more submissive though I like to switch sometimes & take my turn dishing out the punishment.

In my view, the D/s relationship should be very loving and caring, there might be that element of punishment and control in the play but I feel that it should be loving first. I don't think that it should leave you feeling cold and worthless. At least not for me...

My imagination gets me going more than sharing/receiving photos or playing on cam. I need a creative man/woman or both willing to play with words only. Whether it leads to more than that is a question for a later time. I certainly wouldn't expect everything from me in our first conversation, nor any that follow. If I share a photo with you it probably won't be because you asked for it, but because I wanted to. I may be submissive, but that doesn't mean I'll do anything for you that I don't want to. That's a slave.

Hard limits for me are blood/scat/piss/vomit, and the threat of getting cut/actually being cut. Cam is a hard limit too. Being choked is kind of a soft limit for me I think.

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=5952169

100% Switch | 100% Rope bunny | 98% Rigger | 97% Brat | 90% Submissive | 84% Masochist | 78% Primal (Prey) | 68% Degradee | 66% Dominant | 65% Experimentalist | 63% Boy/Girl | 60% Sadist

Those percentages are subject to change as I am likely to always be in the process of discovering my sexual identity. For example: I may like being treated like a pet more than I think, who knows...