CucumberLemonade

Non Binary • Demisexual • Lithromantic • Yogi • Asphyxiophiliast-Gasper • Shibari Rope Bottom • Anhedonic & Dementic

✨ DVSA Survivor | Self healer | Warrior ✨

DND.
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The deeper truth behind fetishing on asphyxiation, compression, strangulation, restriction, pain….

Is that they all feel familiar.
Trauma bonding.


These masochistic sensations elicit and mimic the very same thing we are used to receiving: pain and suffering.
From being reared in a dysfunctional home in childhood, and in dragging those unhealed unprocessed wounds into our immature adult relationships creating the same cycle.

Why do some people over rescue stray pets amidst their struggling capacity to provide enough attention, time, and resources to each?
Why pity so much as to extending help more than we could to those without voices whom we thought no one cares?


Have you pondered on reasons behind always being available to help, rescue, and save others as to having that longing to be the one saved instead?

Do you serve everyone but yourself?

Have you kept the abuse you went through or is currently undergoing, hidden, so as to make everyone else’s life at peace, but your own sanity?

Ever wondered why we keep on attracting partners and people who doesn’t answer to our wants & needs?
Who are emotionally unavailable?


Is it so because all of the above felt “home?” A codependent dysfunctional home.


Yet, think it through. What does your nervous system really crave for?
Is it not gentleness, safety, and security? That emotional reciprocity.
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