Average girl just trying to survive this world.
I shy from labels; they tend to be interpreted very strictly while being entirely subjective from person to person, alas, sometimes they're needed.
I do consider myself submissive, but I don't pretend that my definition is the universal law - I want being taken in every way, I want to be able to trust a dominant with myself, I want to submit to his control and trust him to bring us both pleasure. It's not just sexual play for me, I cannot turn it on and off. So, I'm not going to be interested in getting down and dirty with someone I don't trust, I just don't get into it. I definitely need to get to know someone before anything.
But, ultimately I just seek human connection. Even if just chatting for a night makes us feel better about the world that can be a beautiful thing. I am open minded and happy to talk about anything.
Location
USA