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jjsharshaw's Biography:
Sex: Male
Age: 51 to 60
Weight: Large
Height: Average
Location: Kansas City Metro
Orientation: Straight
Interested In: Friends, Sex Partners, Love, Women
Status: Attached
Smoke: Occasionally
Drink: Occasionally
Fetishes: D/s (Dom); rough sex; arterial choking
Pets: Cat(s), Dog(s)
User Number: 59042
Member Since: October 25, 2001
Last Modified: May 14, 2015
Some words from jjsharshaw:

The greatest pleasure is to give pleasure.

The giving and receiving of pleasure is both a need and an ecstasy! - Gibran

The smell of sex, the smell of sweat, the suppleness of skin, the maddening desire of want, the swollen slickness of a woman's sex, the gruntings and moanings, the whispers of obscenities - in the dark - in the heat of passion - how wondrous!

"When I remember Lisa I don't think about her clothes, or her work, or where she was from, or even what she said. I think about her smell, her taste, her skin touching mine." - Opening lines from the movie "9 Songs." As Roger Ebert said back in the day, "Two thumbs way up!"

Yes, jjsharshaw is a pen name. I took it in homage to Sci-Fi writer Robert A. Heinlein. I met my name sake, Heinlein's lawyer, physician, writer of pulp fiction, screen writer, snark, gadfly, lover of women &etc., extraordinare, Dr. Jubal Harshaw, in Heinlein's masterpiece, "Stranger in a Strange Land." This was the most electrifying, fascinating character I had ever read! In my mind's eye, the movie of "Stranger" - that I would produce & direct - the personified Jubal Harshaw was immediately James Coburn. Alas, he has shuffled off this mortal coil. But, oh! If only I could be as sharp witted, smart, audacious, accomplished as Jubal Harshaw, well, really Robert A. Heinlein! The JS in Jubal JS Harshaw is me.

I'm a Fan of Anais Nin (The Delta of Venus), Henry Miller (The Tropic of Cancer), Elizabeth McNeill (9 1/2 Weeks), Pauline Reage (The Story of O), Kurt Vonnegut (Welcome to the Monkeyhouse), Robert A Heinlein (Stranger in a Strange Land) and Elizabeth Wurtzel (Prozac Nation).

I am Shaw's "unreasonable man" and I don't fit so neatly into boxes, despite apparent appearances.

I found a new, more succinct differentiation of porn versus erotica in an article in the September-October 06 edition of "The Utne Reader." Porn deals solely with arousal. Erotica deals with human sexuality in all its facets. Increasingly those are the kinds of stories I want to write, about our sexuality and all its quirks and responsibilities and consequences and all the other baggage it brings to every one of our lives. Occasionally there is nothing too arousing about that but it still resonates about our lives or the lives of people we know. Be forewarned.

I, as with most writers on literotica and elsewhere, live for feedback. Please take time to vote on the stories, send feedback and/or leave a comment on the comment board. I thrive on feedback and while I positively love hearing "Wow, that was hot," I also take constructive criticism too. I would ask that you be as detailed as your mood strikes you - while "I doubt whether you can ever write anything erotic or sensual" or "You suck" (sentiments of a certain anonymous fan of mine) may convey your sentiments with razor sharp clarity of thought, it does me little good in terms of improving my skills.

Thank you to all who have read my work - whether you've liked it or not.

Been in an extreme writer's block since 2006. I am working on a comeback. Any ideas? Drop me a line. You can click on the Communicate tab & send email. I used to have a Blackberry ID you could contact but I could not resist the Samsung Galaxy S III, if just to poke the Apple Mafia in the eye.


As the story count has gotten a bit high I would like to suggest you check out the following stories FIRST. I'd also like to suggest you read the essays first to get a feel for "me." (Then you can take your pick if you want. I am listing the categories in the order I guess I would read.)

Essays: A Proposed New Rating System * Real Life and the Movies * Midlife (Very Personal) * The Violence of Desire (Also personal)

Sci Fi: (A bit o' fun) * Fleshy Headed Mutants * The Secret Lives of Cats

Romance: Angela Undress * Lost Time (partially based on personal experience) * Mercies

Non-consentual/Reluctant: Deceit (political intrigue) * Tell Him Valdez is Coming

Erotic Couplings: Collapse * Oblivion

Group Sex: (Another bit o' fun) * Intermission in the Rear Balcony

Exhibitionist/Voyeur: Four East

Lesbian: The Accidental Lesbian * She Speaks in Tongues * Sonic Girl * Transference - All Parts * The Wall and Joy's Friend

Celebrities: Somewhere Near Leavenworth (Melissa Etheridge)

Fetish: A Twist in His Sobriety (Sex & Drugs in one night in LA/A song by Tanika Tanitram) * The Little Death (Polyamory & erotic asphyxiation) * Nights in White Satin (Heroin and a cold night)

BDSM: Sam, Laura and Joanne - all parts

Erotic Horror: The Evil Within - All Parts * Desolation


It's been a while. An eight year writer's block. I am working on more - the good news is the amount of wondrous sensuality to write about is overwhelming! And the bad news - the amount of wondrous sensuality to write about is overwhelming!

It's now late Summer of '14.

Think good thoughts for me. Feel free to suggest ideas. Oh...BTW, I think I have a handle of the use of to & too. Whether I do or not, you need not expend effort to point out that particular failure. :)

Take Care.

And Front! (it's Harshaw's repeated line in the book. I love it. You'll have to read the book to understand it. Sorry.)

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