I am 36 years old, female, married, and a masochistic/sexual submissive, with slave tendencies, who craves being controlled. I have always craved a certain amount of pain and control, but didn't realize what that meant until I was in my mid 20s.
Some, not all, of my kinks include: Shibari, bondage, wearing secret items (or lack of) under clothes, pain/impact play (clamps, spankings, paddling, etc.), edging, etc. I am a very curious, and eager to please, submissive, so this is by no means a full list. The most important factor, for me, is the strong connection between a Dom and his sub... everything else is just a bonus.
I love to make friends with new people and read kinky stories about the lifestyle. Some favorite story categories include BDSM, mind control, non-consent, romance, and anal.