by angel_in_disguise
Something different to read for a change. I bet a lot of people could expand on this greatly. Thanks.
WOW!! Do I know the feeling! Very interesting submission. Thanx for enlightening me......
Insightful. I have been there and done that especially the "marry because your friends, family and co-workes think you would make a great couple"! Nothing like pleasing family and friends! Ohh, and another reason, marry because of the great sex, especially if YOU were a virgin or lacking any experience. Nothing like getting your first piece of ass and thinking it's the only pussy in town as you wander thrugh the house yanking the wank because she isn't in the mood.
There was only one point I would contend with.. I know of many happily married couple who are opposites. Done well and with love these tend I think to be stronger relationships. Each partner compliments the other.
Aside from that, there is a lot of "wisdom" here.
Regards
had some of this advice before I married. Much of this story mirrored my own experience. Thanks for sharing.
Excellent job! I'm not married but you're reinforcing my decision to wait til the right one comes along. Ditty is the right spelling btw. Also, great tits!
I'm almost tempted to print out a copy of this and mail it to several friends right now...
The content of the story and replies are making me feel a bit concerned about issues I've got in my current relation. We're engaged, but not married yet. Thanks for making me second-guess my decision (said somewhat wryly and tongue-in-cheek).
...You aren't my ex-wife, are you? ;)
Naahh....she could never say those kinds of things about herself.
While I already knew some of these I still managed to ignore them. Also after 18 years of marriage I could add a few. Like Yes your wife will become your mother-in-law, and if you enjoy sex often or a bit kinky DO NOT marry a catholic virgin...
Thanks for writing this, always good to know you're not the only unhappy one.
Loved this it is exactly what i went true for a few years but now i have a swetheart who is divorced also and it is great. good luck
right...I'm living it.
Wouldn't it be nice to wave that magic wand for a 'do-over'?
Add to number 6, leave their sorry ass sleeping on the couch and go to bed without waking him/her..LOL. Good article.
omg, sooooo amusing, and soooo true lol I married my husband because I "thought" I loved him. And I thought he loved me too, but it turns out he just needs a mommy figure, you know someone to do his dishes, his laundry, pay his bills, baby him....I am sitting where you are, waiting for the right time to leave a bad relationship. Its not abusive, just frustrating, and dead end, I havn't had sex in two years lol
Okay, now I'm worried, cause you haven't been around. Hope the reason is that you finally stopped riding the furniture with potato-balls and made your way to hell where your wings got all dirty, but that's okay, cause you're doing all sorts of unmentionable things and having fun.
Evebroughtanaxthistime
Oh sorry... Before I forget - if he's shit in bed now, doesn't matter how much he loves you, he'll be worse in ten years time (or be the same and think he's improved). But he still made me happy, so I stuck it out before I went celibate for other reasons on top of that and asked him to get himself a lover. We were together till he died. He got his sex though.
Oh, here's a good one - the way he is towards his mother - that's gonna be you! Whatch out! This is failproof!!!
If he is discriminatory of other ethnic groups, he will have the same mindset towards women when you're out of earshot. Whatch out! Every single fucking time!
Bloody hell, that felt good.
Evebroughtanaxthistime