by manmatch
D - I - V - O - R - C - E - ! What you have, by your description, stopped being a marriage after the first year. What are you afraid of? Being alone? Being alone is obviously an improvment over being with her. You can hardly call that tramp a friend. The word enemy is much more applicable.
i would tell her to hit the road ,file for a divorce and sue her lover for alienation of affection
I would love that relationship. Sharing hot men with her would be great.