All Comments on 'Advice on Being a Shared Wife'

Don't be so f*cking stupid as to get involved with with any woman like this.

I’m honestly curious. Why black men?

Being in a poly/swinger relationship with my lovely wife, I think this is a well-stated and argued stewardship to other wives that want to try this relationship dimension. Thank you!

There are pearls of wisdom in this article and some things that may not appeal to others. We are all different and this article provides but one person's view of a polyamorous lifestyle. It gave me some things to think about and certainly had a ring of truth about it.

In almost every article or story I read it obvious the man sees the woman as “ property” like she’s something he owns. That is the #1 cause of problems in relationships. Your spouse, either a woman or a man, if your the wife isn’t something you own and the sooner you realize that the bett er your relationship will be.

It’s your job to support them and their dreams, needs and goals and they should do the same with you. Accept them for who they are how they are and things get better.

Poly, I am a man and could not agree with you more. Condoms feel terrible. I have been with about 30 women and have only wore one once. And I have never caught a disease. You just have to be careful who you choose.

I have men married to my wife for 8 years and she gives the absolute worse blowjobs I have ever had. She has only been with one other guy besides me so maybe that is the reason. I am not into the cuck lifestyle but I have encouraged her to try different guys so maybe she will learn something about how most men feel about sex. Although I have tried, they might be able to teach her some things that I have not been able to do. I really believe that would help our sex life tremendously. Plus it does turn me on thinking about her having sex with other guys and would like her to become a hot wife. She is on birth control so no worries there. My only fear is she might fall in love with another guy. And I don't want that. Thanks for the terrific article. I'm definitely going to have her read it. DM

My wife never used the internet to find a lover , it was always at work or shopping where she met her men. She never brought them home but i always knew when she had been with a lover. Her longest affairs were with co workers or men she had known in the past

I must compliment you on your article, it was very well written and to the point. Very honest, i would encourage every one to read the article, thank you for submitting it was a great read.

Each to their own if you can’t handle another guy dipping into your wife then don’t do it.

Definitely not for everybody.

My wife and I together now for 27 yrs have explored different experiences since our first couple years together with a mutual secure understanding of what we are doing and how we are going to have our relationship of open minded secure trust that will allow fantasy and desire obtainable.

Your tips and advice are spot on I’d like to add no matter what no sneaking around the boundaries get to enjoy the acceptable sexual situations and be patient cause If things remain secure sex evolves to the next level.

For example our playtime started with another compatible couple that were 10 years older than us. I enjoyed the milf desire being fulfilled.

Over a five year span we played with this couple as well as another sexy couple our age. Speaking for myself here I liked to see my sexy wife in the different perspective that can’t be witnessed 1 on1. To see her body in full I get so aroused to see her facial expressions and body quivers while her legs are spread and another man is licking her delicious pussy before mounting missionary or doggie so I can see her pussy full of his cock. We were 32 and 33 now wife was a sexy mature milf now and enjoyed young men’s eyes checking her out. We talked bout our older friends I mean how horny we got at first to play with sexy mature people. So imagine how excited a 18-20 yr old guy would be to be invited to play with my super sexy wife with me. I won’t describe anymore detail path we followed to achieve desired results because sexy mature women attract young men like bees to Huney. Skipping through to when the wife scouted her young fit guy that obviously had a sexual attraction to her but stayed humble and respectful of our marriage.

I knew she was wet and eager to get him involved in a situation where he is permitted to get as nasty as he wants with her while I’m guideing him right to my wife’s naked horny body I position the head of my 8” cock into her lips for verification perposes. She now had my thick dick in he hand and mouth whilefear the 6’4”muscular 18 yr old revealed his 11” mammoth cock no shit. I had the most intense orgasam watching the young stud stretch her pretty pussy as she sucked on me. She had her first squirting orgasam. As weird it may seem I admitted the best sex I’ve had is shareing my wife with young men. Because we have no bad experiences full of lasting trust and humble guys we still endulge from time to time. Young men and recently role playing with young submissive girls likening the daddy thoughts. My wife likes to lick clit as she watches the ladies pussy Stretch around her husbands big dick.

In closing if the idea gets you both excited and your secure and confident that your sex is just sex really good sex will remain if honesty and trust aren’t compromised. Keep the ego self entitled out fuck the humble people that are eager to play.

Your generalizations are just that: generalizations. Not everyone likes a screamer, for example. And some prefer condoms, lubed or not. A better title would be “One Person’s Sexual Preferences and Recommendations on Being a Shared Wife.”

Good advice, really want to please my husband. Just wondering if they think of you as a slut if you do this for them. I love my husband with all my heart and want nothing more than to make him happy. I just don't want him to think that I'm not pleased by just being with him.

My wife and I had an open marriage. As to rules, no boyfriend/girlfriend relationships, one-offs only. No secrets and total open communication

Great story and advice but I do think each lady does have different preferences. For example, I love to dress up in sexy clothes including bra and panties. To me, nothing is more sexy than having your man of the evening remove your pair of soaked panties. I love to kiss and I agree, no condoms! It is the greatest feeling in the world to have a stranger shoot a huge load bareback into my pussy. I've been taking many different cocks into my pussy for over 40 years. I'm in my mid 60s and still enjoying it. And my husband is with me every step of the way.

Aside from birth control issues I think it is very irresponsible to have multiple sexual partners without using condoms. I have never liked them even when young but I am now 82 and there is just too much loss of sensitivity. I am straight but I have lost friends to AIDS.

someone made a comment about about not owning a spouse... telling your spouse you dont want to share sex with anyone else isnt owning them. seriously if people cant forsaken all others in the contract of marriage dont flippin get married. no condoms well theres a greet way to pass stds and get knocked up by some strange guy. whole freakin generation of delinquents

Since my wife got into the lifestyle 3 years ago our sex lives have gotten so much better. We have only used one older married man, but he can really please her. It is so hot to watch this well-endowed man get her off. Plus her oral skills are so much better now, I know it is not for everyone, but for us it has really worked.

I don’t think bringing STDs home to a spouse is “hot”. Revisit the condom aversion, perhaps with a therapist.