Blowjob: Fuck My Throat Hard

Today we are going to talk about blowjobs. For me this was way more complicated than it needed to be. I always had mixed feelings about it. As usual, I did a bunch of research on surfing the web and a few good porn sites. These sites are easy to search for specific techniques or topics, and have numerous examples from a variety of stars. Just go to the blowjob section and bam...you will get clear views of several different strategies for a successful blowjob. In addition, nearly any video incorporates blowjob into the video. The thing I love about it is you have every day people openly talking about their sexuality, desires, and what works for them. For me it normalizes what I think about sex and want to explore.

Starting my research I had several conflicting views to the blowjob technique. On one hand I know my man absolutely loves blowjobs. He asks for it ALL the time. For me I knew I was not very skilled and found the process frustrating. I was always uncomfortable with my body posture, choking myself 'unintentionally,' and so worried about not nicking him with my teeth, that I really was not able to enjoy the process or watching his sexual pleasure. While the blowjob is great for him, the blowjob really doesn't do any active sexual pleasure for me. It was just all about pressure and discomfort. I am not sure if that was just me so I scanned several sites that assisted with understanding the blowjob process more and techniques for comfort for me, and sexual satisfaction for him. After doing some reading I watched alot, I mean alot of porn.

Watching porn and doing research helped me focus on comfort and technique. So last night I was able to apply this to my man, sucking his cock in my mouth prior to our fucking. Starting with the overall beginning physical approach of going to his dick, gently grasping it, and the gentle soft licking it with my tongue prior to wrapping my lips around it. This process really helped me feel sexy, in control, and excited about providing pleasure to my man. I then have several techniques to practice, and my hubby was more than willing to allow me to. As I sucked his dick gently between my lips with a relaxed mouth; I sucked it without hands and moving his dick deep in my mouth with just a head bob. This was rather difficult to control from my current posture, so I adjusted it for more comfort. I then took his cock in my right hand and while sucking hard at the tip of his dick in my mouth, I began to run my hand up and down with a tight grip, while also twisting my hand slowly.

This had very positive results, noted by twinging in his feet and moaning. So yup, that technique worked pretty well. I also had done research on deepthroating. Despite my reservations I began to guide his cock to the back of my mouth then off and on pushed it to the very back of my mouth, hitting my throat. This is honestly challenging, as my body kept screaming at me that I would not be able to breathe (duh). It was noted in my research that the key to deepthroating is to relax your throat. This is complicated to relax while your brain is also screaming at you that you need to be able to breathe. But no worries, my hubby was there to assist me with that.

I already had conversations with my hubby on my sexual interests, which includes BDSM techniques, like breath play. Previously we had played with him choking me as he was fucking me roughly. I tell you what, I loved it. The sense of feeling completely powerless and willing to give him complete control over me. Going back to the blowjob. He then took my hair tightly in his hands and pushed his cock deep into my mouth, hitting my throat. At the same time he began to finger bang me. The physical excitement heated up my sexual appetite, thus making it much easier for his cock to go deeper into my mouth and hit my throat. He responded by additionally thrusting into my mouth. This further increased the sexual pleasure from the both of us.

It was clear that my research had improved my technique, creating a pleasurable bond between us. This was important to me, as the simple action of doing the blowjob is not physically pleasurable to me. But with his assistance, it turned the act into a sexual experience. In addition, it helped me with the building of trust with my husband. This is very important to me. Despite the raw amount of time we have been together, I continue to be reserved with my trust, always in fear of being hurt somehow. He has never done anything to me to deserve my distrust, but past events continue to have a negative influence on me today. I fully believe that as I move down this road of sexual exploration, this will have a significant positive outcome on my marriage. I will get closer to my husband as I develop my trust, as well as my own self esteem.

-Heather-