by Player One
I reject the notion that a person must be broke, taken down to nothing or essential have their individuality erased and then be magically rebuilt in some image of submission provided by a dominant. It is become so accepted in the fictional bdsm that it is invading the real bdsm and damaging people. Actually breaking actual people is easily done. Putting Humpty back together into a functional people, let alone a supposedly improved person, not so much.