All Comments on 'I Am Such A Fool'

Does he have ANY redeeming qualities? NONE that I can see. He is fixated in his ignorance... he believes that if you go to a Doctor you die. He lies to his wife about his possible Stomach cancer.... wont take ANY medicine or Chemo... and turns his fixation about seeing his wife with other men into an excuse to cheat?!

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God almighty what an asshole

Enjoyed the story. I would like to have seen her viewpoint. Did she feel guilty at all for what had happened. Did she ever question not telling the police the whole story. I definately believe there could be a sequel

The Husband is a selfish dickhead. Everything is always me, me, me.

Another well written story but your protaginist is stupid. I don't condone adultery and I don't apologize for the low rating. After all, you chose the characters and the subject matter. It's not up to me to defend you. I look forward to your next posting. Hopefully the players won't be so stupid. Thanks for the story and as always I respect your work.

Not one of your better efforts. As most of your readers have said, he was a self centered,stupid ass-hole, who doeasn't deserve a loving wife. Did Anon from Pa read the story the rest of us did? His/her comment about the wife feeling guilty makes no sense. Guilty about what?

The Ct. Yankee

For a good writer to produce something like this is so sad.

but aren't most of us, in one way are another at some point in our lives. If any of the other commenters had read the title with any perception, they might have expected some of the developments in the story. After more than forty years of counseling persons with stories about their foolish mistakes or the mistakes of those close to them, while trying to gain understanding or healing for their actions, I find your hero to be rather normal, over against the people I have dealt with in my lifetime.

D.G. I know you have written prolifically and hope that by this time you can accept and ignore those critics, who read this genre just for their sexual stimulation withou any intention of being involved with plot or charaterizations You do a good job; right on!!!

This is not just a story of an adulterer, it's a story about redemption and second chances. What could be better than that? Yes he was selfish and yes he did cheat but as I was told in Sunday School, " Who among you is without sin cast the first stone." We all screw up and sometimes the mistakes are permanent, I'm glad this story had a happy ending. Thanks for the story.

DG, I love most of your stories but this one is not up to your usual standards. The writing was good but the premise of the husband giving up and than having affairs is just to much to take. If you would have made his character weaker than the story would have been more believable.

This is a good story and each of us has a so called moral compass to put into play as to how we see the behavior of Gregg. I can say this is more to normal then many people would like to believe. I guess it is not a fantasy some of the commenters like in a story. It sure has happened in real life and that I guess is not what many want to read here.<P>I know how an act of betrayal like in this story can make the betrayer see it as “Oh well, no one was hurt so no big deal.” It also can make the betrayer so remorseful as to never want to let the betrayed down ever again. It is what makes some who have betrayed hate the idea or knowledge of others who also have strayed. You may have some commenters who have experienced this and hate it so much they hate seeing it portrayed in a fantasy story! Outrage of cheating, no matter how it is accomplished, is one sign of guilt they want to have an outcome they can applaud or at least live with.<P>I thank you for your good effort and entertainment. Keep them coming as your stories are at the least very entertaining and provide commentary that can be good to outrageous for most readers.<P>PT

Rarely would I leave a comment, however in this instance, I'm compelled to do so. My true life experiences are remarkably similar to some of the husbands in this story. Met her at 17, she was 21, blessed with a girl after 2 years and a boy 3 after that. I've never fooled around nor to my knowledge had she. My wife succumbed to cancer after our 30th anniversary - 11 years ago. I understand the desire to spare your loved ones the protracted agony of watching you being consumed by the illness's progression - but cannot agree with it. The wife in the story was correct regarding the chance to reminisce, resolve issues and appreciate true closeness.

Thanks again for providing another excellent tale. You

show such versatility for the types of loving wives

stories you can write well. Please keep them coming.

Thank you.

Now that he has beaten the cancer, I wonder if he will be just as lucky in beating AIDS after having all that unprotected sex?

Even as I was reading, I asked myself, "What is this about? Is it even worth my time, or the author's?" <p>

It was so mediocre, it should not have been written. <p>

I felt it would have been better, HAD something like, "Shit, I accidentally cut my left big toe off, when I was trying to cut some lumber with an old chain saw"... As it was, the "story" was like, "I walked down the street; picked my nose; smiled at a nice lady, as I was doing that. The end." <p>

I mean, there is no point of any kind.

man. Whose pride rides before all others. Figuring you are going to die you go out and expose yourself to all forms of diseases to find you arent going to die at all but now you may have a nice disease to fight and possibly give to the woman who is your mate, wife, and real reason for existence. Dumb people do dumb things and stupid people do stupid things. You are both, they arent the same. She should have divorced you for the good the children and her own physical health. By the way some STD and AIDS testing takes up to a year to determine if you are or are not infected.

DG, you sure shook up a lot of readers with this one. I guess these people reading loving wives never thought of cheating. They just read about it. I find the characters in your stories to be credible people. I'm not saying they are right, but that they are more like real people.

I get tired of white women having to have big black cocks and men with 12" ones. There are real people in this world and you seem to be able to write about them.

Again, I'm not saying your characters are right but they could very easily be real. You are one of the best writers on Lit. You make all these readers either happy or mad enough about your stories to at least comment. Looking forward to your next one.

A reader of DG Hear's stories.

A real writer,thanks for the story.You caught the feeling of the wife and her watching husband. Having been involved in a affair with a married woman who's husband watched us,he seemed sad and damaged,even small. I think this is much closer to the truth. Thanks for your effort!

FIRST of all, there is presumably a Read-o-meter that tells how many people read (or open) each story.

AND then there is the Rating (from 00 to 100) just up there a bit.

BUT what i suspect really counts is the number of people who put pen to paper, so to speak, and write comments, actually put thought and effort in response to the tale.

AND for this writer there seen to be a large number.

WHICH, as the yankee hillbillies would say "nuff said".

Yours,

Kilroy

true love, it make's me feel good. my true love has been gone now for 12 year's. i could never replace her. ..... i don't even try. ......... rich

Thank you all for the comments. I am rather surprised at so many negative ones on this story. I try to put the human element in my stories. Real people with real sickness and or fantasies.

I find it interesting how different people will respond in any given situation. Sickness, fantasy, even a cheating spouse. My characters have feelings and don't always do what's right. They are people with faults, like all of us.

I leave commenting open and appreciate the feedback. Sometimes I guess I just strike a nerve.

Thanks for reading

DG Hear

You are one of the elite in this site.....keep up the good work! We thank you for all your efforts!

You have written the story of a man who could be the guy you work with, your brother, your friend... anyone put in this position. He is real and he is normal, and the situation is realistic. The sudden threat of a deadly illness is enough to tip the most balanced mind, because suddenly all the possibilities of life seem snatched away. Gregg was only 45 with a single, lifetime sex partner. No honest, red-blooded male could say he has never thought of sex with another woman in that many years, and Gregg was the same. Look at it from another point of view; if my husband has a serious long term illness and I'm faced with the prospect of no more sex, ever, what do I do about my needs? Do I borrow a friend? Hire a guy somehow? Do nothing? The redeeming feature of this story is that Gregg realized his mistake and the true value of his family, but even if he didn't, his initial actions are understandable.

,,,are remembered for the wins, not the efforts. DG has had many wins and I always read DG's stories.

The story was very good and I can say that any man that was fortunate enough to marry a woman he loved would feel about casual sex the same way your main character ended up feeling. My problem with the story came when the doctor who removed his tumor spoke of the tumor bursting. I've had some experience with that, and can tell you this... tumors are a solid mass, caused by the unrestrained growth of specific cells in the body, and they don't burst. Also, multiple tomors would be considered stage 2 cancer, and the treatment would almost certainly include radiation in addition to the chemo therapy, and the treatment period would run closer to 5 months. I suspect the auther has be fortunate enough to never have learn any of these details.

Think about it. You set-up your male lead as a decent family man. Then, when a life-threatening illness rears its head, what does he do? Does he take the advice of an experienced Medical Professional? No. Does he speak with the only person to stick by his dumbass. No. Does he even speak with his CHILDREN? No. He turns into a frat boy! His main thought is not to "spare his family" but to live out his fantasies! As a family man, I would take my family on a cruise, or backpack through Africa. Something! Not smoke weed and get laid with strangers. How do you think his children would have felt when they learned of this after he died? They would have probably thought "Damn, the Ol'Man was not only a coward, but a hypocrite."

I would venture to guess that the negative writers certainly have not had anything close to life threatening. You don't have any idea what you would do until death stares you in the face. NONE!

Yes, a very good story, indeed.

You can’t please all the people all of the time, but you do keep trying despite a marked lack of appreciation from some (generally anonymous) critics. This story is a realistic portrayal of life and our hero deserved and got a second chance at health and happiness with his true love and family. Those of us who love ‘Happy Endings’ should be very happy with this one DG! Keep them coming. Pete.

As usual - a compelling writing in style and characters building. At times I am left wondering about the true source of the seemingly disproportionate harshness of the critique of what is after all just another character of a fallible human being. Perhaps people need some ritualistic venue to purge their anger towards whatever in their life seems unresolved or unjust. Who knows?

Where I felt that the story came somewhat short was when almost from the beginning, the conclusion of the story is already a known entity as is the process - namely a fool made a mistake; he recognizes it and somehow escaped the worst consequences and seemingly learned his lesson. The rest are the details which we learn later. Not much tension or curiosity are left for the essential plot question:"what next", when the results are pretty much a foregone conclusion.

Well, the story brought tears to my eyes. It goes to show how sensitive i am even in case of sexual stories. Thanks for your realistic story. Now i will have to start reading more of your stories

The guy cheated...he should be toast. Right???

It is sooo very right. Well said anon !

A "1" ... didn't like it at all ... not my sort of story ... many other great DGH stories though.

old folks story = 1

Lets burn the bastard!!!!!!!

I think he should burn, but I can see where he was coming from after all when a woman cheats it's something the husband didn't do. This story goes to show it's all bullshit. He atleast had a tumor. Most women cheat because the wind was blowing the wrong way. I gave it a 3 because she was a good wife and he didn't have to cheat.

In more ways than one - she is far better than he is -

He is not evil - just weak and insecure like so many people, If people are to be consistent though there should have been far more burn the bastard comments - ah the life of double standards

He was a cheating asshole husband who didn't want his family suffering over his cancer but cheated extensively on his loving wife. He's lucky she took him back and didn't leave his sorry cheating ass. He is a fool. His wife is a saint.

would have been that lower than whale shit Gregg, ate a .45 slug.

Touching story.

Too bad they don't all end happily... My love at 57 was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and given 6 months to live.. lasted 2 months and the last week no one should have to go through the pain she faced. Thank god it was short even though it wasn't sweet. She at first wanted to be left alone and I talked her into at least trying... Should have left well enough alone. Thousands of dollars lost and days and weeks of pain for what? To die a death as though they strung her up and cut her apart without pain medicine? That is what it seemed like even though they DID all they could to relieve her as much as possible.

and then taking the last roundup. Ghost riders still beckon out West, TK U MLJ LV NV

First, let me say that I understand where this guy is coming from, and agree with the outcome of the story.

BUT, I have some sympathy with the Anons who wonder where are all the BTB's who give no quarter to cheating WIVES, but seem willing to give this guy a pass.

Douchebag thinks he's dying, so he believes that's an excuse to cheat, and go gay while at it! Seriously?! MORON!

DG, I usually like your stuff, but this was just fucked up, man.

2 Stars. The writing was good as usual, but the tale itself sucked.

Who was in his hotel room with his wife while he was still in the hospital.

Don't get me wrong, she was/is a fantastic wife but - nonetheless - no dummy.

Strange sex might be out of the question and she doesn't seem the type to act vengeful but given the circumstances, go for some extramarital, enjoy it for its' worth, never bring it up and stay married to hubby, despite his cheating - she loved and understood him although doubtfully - agreed!

And - as she said, what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas and that goes for Reno too...get it!

He was right, he is naive but probably lucky he is bwecause I don't think he could handle it like her and no, I don't think she would go on sleeping around, she has what she wants and thanks to him...some Great memories!

A big mistake was made and this guy showed up at the Pearly Gates way before his time. God being who he is wants to do something really nice for the guy. He asked him what he would like. The guy says he would like to visit Hawaii. God said no problem we will just fly you there first class all the way. Guy says he is deathly afraid of flying, God said no problem we will put you on a cruise liner. Guy says he has tried it and got seasick something horrible. that the only way for him to get to the islands would be to drive God replies that is a might undertaking, do you have a second choice. Guy thinks and Yes God explain women to me. God leans back and thinks then says you want that highway 4 lane or 8?

I know this off track but with all the fussing in the comments, thought we could use a laugh

Sorry But I am a BTB fan, and a family guy so him not wanting to spend his last days with his family just does not cut it. Maybe just me but if my days were almost over I would want to spend them with my significant other.

hmm this man is so egotistical its rediculous he says he doesend whant to do it becouze his wife but lets face it evry shrink will proberly tell you it has more to do with his own fear of dieng slow like his father besides it wasend even sure it was cancer or if it was terminal and btw alot of times you can beat it further more he takes away a lump some of money which they will proberly they will need in the future he betrays literly evrything he claims to love in he suposed last month of his live be going away and nod staying with the person he claim to love and screws god knows what ever if i were that woman i would have spit in his face and let him die(thats my man's opinion)

"I hate doctors. People that go to doctors get sick and die." No, you idiot! People that go to doctors are told what's wrong with themselves and are given options for either fixing or dealing with their problems. I get it. You went for the "ride it out because I'm about to die" approach. Countless others have done it, but your mistakes were riding it out, cheating on your wife (with both genders, I might add), dying alone and worrying your family to tears. You sir, are a douchebag. Consider yourself extremely lucky that your loving bride loves you enough to want to keep you dog ass around.

A story about a sick man going to Nevada and having sex with a man instead of spending time with his family.fags posting in l w what a fucking joke

if its not Vegas, its Reno. TK U MLJ LV NV

2 stars for getting me to read this?

He was such an idiot! He should have confessed and gotten tested for STDs!

He never thought of the rest of the family.

He was more scared of treatment than death. I have had a family member his age go through chemo and make it. I am they did it gives us more time to get things right. I don't agree with his decisions but I think I can understand some of them. In the end most agree that fantasy should remain that. Once you start sharing your spouse the specialness of the bond leaves. He was lucky enough to have a forgiving wife that understood him and his faults.

This reminds me of the movie "Bucket List" where two fatally ill men make a list to fulfill each other's fantasy's. Well, the protagonist made his own list. In the end he came the same conclusion as King Solomon in the Biblical book Ecclesiastes. Filling one's selfish desires is meaningless. It's just chasing after the wind.

Just as his wife knew of his transgressions; so did God knew of Solomon's and was willing to forgive.

Kudos DG.

And a cheater. His wife should dump his sorry ass.

He screwed up, but.made through surgery and returned to a true loving wife. A very well written story.

What a stupid moron!!! Didn't deserve a wife like Glenna, understanding and forgiving.

Good story ,however.

He is lucky in many ways. Wives like that don't fall out of trees.

Like he did, but other than that as they say; been there, done that, got the tee-shirt. Been a few years since the doctors felt they had to tell my wife in the ER they didn't think I was going to make it or call her to he hospital to say goodbye. Nah, I'm too ornery and too stubborn to go down the drain that easy. That's why you get scoped both ends regularly, blood is a good indicator. But I have to say I do understand what he was going through, you nailed the medical aspects pretty damned close too. As for all of the tubes and equipment, one time I had seven of those pumps connected up to me and running. Good job DG, if I hear he messes up with his wife again I'm going to come hunt his ass down. Signed: BTW

If I ever have to go through something like that, I want someone like Glenna beside me.

Glenna is too good for him. Great story again.

the only word coming from his mouth better be yes.

What a dumbass.

He doesn't deserve Glenna.

Good Story\. A man in that despare can definitely make bad decisions. Wife had the good graces to understand the dire circumstances he was under. Real life.

Some angels have halos, others have wings, others have a special glow. In this story, that angel had a special name: Glenna.

6*

BJ

His fucking doctor knew he didn't want to have surgery. What a prick.

I enjoyed the story but I think the ending should have included a more ambiguous comment from Glenna about what happened to _her_ in Reno.

Some of the comments below seem confused suggesting she had a revenge fling. There is nothing in the story as written that suggests that. Yes she strongly suspects an affair but give he almost died and was in severe mental and physical distress, she is is willing to give him the one trip pass and drop the matter.

What Greg did was stupid, he was fortunate that his wife overlooked his fling in Reno, most wife would have divorced him in a New York minute. Well written. 5/5

Wow, Glenna is a gem.

The guy is an asshat and she is a cuckoldress. That makes her the wimp. So in essence it's still a wimpy cuck story, a willing one at that. 1 star.

Nice story, a.bit unbelievable, but that is Fantasy.

555555555555! Beautiful story, enough said. Through my tears I say thank you, DG Hear.

A fool doesn’t really describe him, more a complete and utter moron. I can’t believe that his wife didn’t divorce him, he certainly didn’t deserve her.

Glenna is a saint. But wow the MC is an asshole. Suspect if he hadn't almost died she would have had a very different outcome. People do crazy things when they think they are going to die. Dumb, irrational things. He is lucky in many ways.

What a narcissistic prick.