by ChristianChrissy
I never got the fantasy of being taken before, but I think I get it now. Feeling control by deferring control.
Agreed. Couples play out fantasies all the time, using blindfolds and sounds to fool the senses. Why should it be different in a trusting threesome? Sex often comes with some guilt (especially for many woman) so having others in control lets the body react to situations that truly excite without the guilt of asking for it or being open to it.