Swingin' in the Breeze

Our dates do not always guarantee sex. We have met up with other couples on this site who want to jump into the bed a few minutes after meeting. While we are more than happy to have sex on a first date, we need to feel a connection to the other couple first. Sometimes it takes us a while to warm up to a couple, but at other times we have instant chemistry. Sex is something that we need to play by ear.

As we said, health and safety is very important to us. We require a full STD report for both of you dated no more than ten days prior to when we meet up. We will be more than happy to provide you with our STD report as well. There are so many nasty diseases out there that we want to avoid. You can get tested at any clinic in your area. It is very quick and cheap. If you do not have that report, then we can still have fun getting to know each other, but there will be no sex.

Now, let's assume that we have a connection and all the STD reports come back negative. The has hottest things about swinging is having sex with a different partner. We do not think that anybody in the lifestyle would deny this. While we love having intercourse with other people, condom use is a MUST, even with a clean STD report. The reason why we always use condoms is because having bareback sex is an intimate act that we only share with each other. We are willing to share a lot of things about our bodies with other couples, but not this.

In addition to intercourse, we also love oral sex. Oral sex is something that we do not require condoms for. Lucia hates going down on a guy and getting the rubbery taste of a condom. Likewise. Matt does not want to bother with a dental dam when eating a woman out. If you are adamant about using condoms for oral sex, we would definitely respect that, but it is not something that we require on our end.

Anal sex is something that we enjoy occasionally with some couples. Matt is always game for ass play if the other woman is OK with it. Lucia likes anal sex, but only after she has gotten to know the man really well. This is not something that she does on a first date.

While Matt never does anything with other men, Lucia loves to play with other women. She finds a female's touch to be just as intoxicating as being intimate with a man.

Finally, we love to watch each other have sex with other people, but we do not have to be in the same room at all times. For some couples this is extremely important, but we have been known to go into separate rooms to have sex with other partners.

We think that this pretty much wraps it up. We apologize that this seems very businesslike. Some people do not like our "Rules and Regulations", but we have been in this lifestyle for a few years now so we know what we want and what we are willing to do. If you are OK with this, give us a buzz. We would love to get together :)"

Once I finished the email, I needed to reread it to make sure I didn't miss anything. Looking at Jess, I asked her what she thought. "I don't know. I think everything they said makes sense. It seems as if they have experience with other couples so they could teach us the in's and out's of being in the swinging lifestyle."

"My thoughts exactly. What do you think about Lucia being open to female on female sex? Would you go along with that?"

"I have to admit it seems very hot. I have never been with another woman, but I've thought about it. Plus, Lucia is absolutely gorgeous. Who wouldn't be open to having fun with her?"

This brought a smile to my face. Here was my wife admitting that she would be fine having lesbian contact with Lucia. It was such a turn on which caused my cock to stiffen in my pants. Picturing Jess kissing Lucia and going down on her sent shivers down my spine in a good way.

Jess and I discussed it further and decided that we wanted to see where this would go. Being a Thursday, we determined that proposing we get together that upcoming weekend was too much of a short notice so we emailed them back suggesting the following Saturday. Their response was immediate - they were game for it!

After doing some research, we found a nice hotel located about halfway between us. The hotel had a bar and restaurant attached to it, so we suggested this as a place to meet. At the very least we could meet them for dinner, and since it was a hotel, if we hit it off we had a place to go for more privacy. Matt and Lucia responded that they thought this was a great idea, so with a few strokes of the computer, Jess and I booked a suite with a king size bed. Now came the hardest part - waiting.

The next week went by at a snail's pace. Every minute seemed to be an hour as we eagerly awaited the weekend. In anticipation for our date, I accompanied Jess to Victoria's Secret at our local mall. After all, she wanted some lingerie to impress Matt and Lucia. She eventually settled on a sexy pair of bra and panties. She looked so amazing in the lacy black lingerie that it was difficult for me to keep my hands off of her as she modeled it for me in the fitting-room. Even if things didn't work out with Matt and Lucia, I would have something to look forward to. Two days before our date, we scanned Matt and Lucia a copy of our clean STD report, and we got theirs in return. At least we knew that if things turned sexual we didn't have to worry about any diseases.

Finally, after patiently waiting, the day of our date arrived. I was extremely nervous as I got myself ready. As we left our house and started to drive to the hotel, I could tell that Jess sensed my agitation. "Don't get nervous, Ben. Just look at this as getting together with friends. If we have no expectations going into our date, I think we won't feel as much pressure. Plus, if we don't vibe with them, we don't have to do anything we don't want to do." Jess always seemed to be the voice of reason and had a knack for talking me off the ledge. She had always been the rock in our relationship.

Still, I couldn't get certain thoughts out of my head. "I know you're right. I just hope we aren't being put in a situation where we set ourselves up for disappointment. How much would it suck if we really like them, but they reject us?"

"I know, but that's just life. People face the possibility of rejection every day. The great thing is that even if they reject us, we still have each other." Damn it, she was right, like always.

Despite reassuring me, there was one more topic that I wanted to review before we got to the hotel. We had talked about it a lot before, but I figured that it didn't hurt going over it once again. "So remember, if we get into an intimate situation with Matt and Lucia, we both have veto power. If I can't handle seeing you with another man, or if you can't handle seeing me with another woman, we can put a stop to what's going on."

"Yes, Ben. We have been over this. Relax. You are thinking too much about this. Just calm down and let's have a great time." As she finished this statement, I took a deep breath as we pulled into the hotel parking lot. There was no turning back now. After checking in, we brought all our stuff to our room, freshened up a bit, and then headed down to the hotel bar.

As the elevator took us down to the lobby, my mind was swimming with a ton of questions: Would Matt and Lucia be attracted to us? Would we be attracted to them? Pictures can be so misleading that they could look totally different in real life. If we hit it off, how do we get things started without being awkward? How would I feel if I actually saw another man have sex with my wife? Were we too old for this? After all, I was 37 and Jess was 35. Isn't swinging for young couples?

My heart pounded as the elevator descended from the 10th floor to the lobby. In reality, the ride took no longer than a few seconds, but in my mind it took an eternity as we stopped at the 7th and 3rd floors. Fuck! Couldn't these people have taken the stairs. Jess sensed my apprehension and took my hand in hers. As she gave me a knowing look, she squeezed my hand. This simple gesture seemed to ground me.

When the elevator finally arrived at the lobby, I basically jumped as the bell dinged and the doors opened wide. Hand in hand, Jess and I exited the elevator and headed towards our destiny. Passing the front desk, we headed towards the hotel bar. At this point, the lights in the hotel flickered for a moment and then returned to normal. I remembered the weatherman on the TV saying that tonight we were going to be having a terrible wind storm, with gusts up to 60 miles per left hour possible. The wind, coupled with the chill of this November evening, made for tonight to be a great night to just stay in and get to know our new friends.

Standing at the entrance to the bar area, Jess and I stopped for a moment. Looking deeply into her eyes, I asked, "Are you ready?" She responded with a smile as she once again took me by the hand. Taking a deep breath, we walked into the bar.

Since it was a little early for a Saturday evening, the bar area was not crowded, which made it easy to spot Matt and Lucia. Jess nudged me as she guided us over towards them. Seated at a high top table, I immediately took stock of Lucia. She was even more gorgeous in person. She wore a tight pink dress, and high heel shoes. As she sat in the chair, she had her legs crossed which hiked her dress up, giving me a great view of her creamy thighs. Her dark hair cascaded straight down past her shoulders. She was an absolutely stunning specimen of female beauty.

As we walked over towards them, they noticed us and stood to greet us. I could tell that as we approached them, Jess was checking out Matt. Wearing a blue collar shirt that accentuated the blueness of his eyes, I knew that Jess was melting inside. She had mentioned to me that she was extremely attracted to men with blue eyes. In fact, she told me on many occasions that my blue eyes were one of the first things she noticed about me. Upon reaching their table, we all greeted each other. Matt shook my hand, while Jess and Lucia hugged. Lucia then turned to me and hugged me, giving me a kiss on the cheek. Jess took Lucia's lead and greeted Matt in a similar manner.

Once we sat down, our conversation flowed naturally and all the anxiety I had felt instantly melted away. I have to say that Jess and I had never connected with another couple so quickly. Within ten minutes, it was like we had been friends for ten years. Matt explained that he was a commercial airline pilot so he got to travel all over the world. He mentioned that it was an exciting job, but it did take him away from home a lot. I knew that the fact he was a pilot was going to make Jess even more attracted to him. She was never shy in telling me that she found men who had dangerous and exciting jobs to be very sexy.

Lucia mentioned that she was a professional photographer, covering mostly weddings. Photography started out as a hobby for her, but as she learned more about it, she was able to turn it into a successful business. I was very impressed with her business savvy. She clearly had a great head on her shoulders, being much more than just a beauty.

There were plenty of flirty moments between us and them, but by no means was anything over the top. When people think about swingers, they assume that they are sex addicts constantly looking for a good lay. It's not like they were overtly sexual. Matt didn't say he wanted to fuck Jess and Lucia didn't say she wanted to suck my cock. Rather, our flirting was more subtle. We joked, laughed, and talked. At times, when we were laughing, Lucia lightly touched my forearm, and Matt innocently touched Jess' knee at one point. Throughout our conversation I could feel our attraction building.

Jess and I had worked out a signal to covertly communicate to each other if we were interested in taking things further with Matt and Lucia. If I was interested, I would place my glass right next to Jess' and if she agreed that she was attracted to them, she would leave her glass next to mine. If she was not interested, she would move her glass. After about an hour of talking, I was absolutely smitten with Lucia. Subtly placing my glass next to Jess', I waited with bated breath for her answer. When she didn't move her glass and gave me a knowing look with a smile, I knew she was just as attracted to Matt as I was to Lucia. The problem was that now neither of us knew how to proceed. Since this was our first time with another couple, we figured we couldn't just asked them if they wanted to have sex, but at the same time we didn't want this opportunity to slip away.

Luckily, since Matt and Lucia were seasoned swingers, they knew exactly what to do. Matt said, "I am so glad that we got the opportunity to get together." Looking around, he noticed that the bar was getting very crowded by this point. "It's getting pretty loud in here. Maybe we could find a quieter place to continue our conversation."

Without hesitation, Jess blurted out, "Let's head to our room for some more privacy." I always loved how Jess could be so forward at times, especially when she knew exactly what she wanted. Looking at each other and nodding, we paid the bill and then headed to the elevator. This was my first opportunity to check out Lucia's backside, her tight dress clinging to her body like a second skin. Sure enough, just as I suspected, her ass was absolute perfection. Shapely and round, I'm sure that many men check her out regularly, longing to be able to touch her curves.

Nervously anticipating what was about to happen, Jess and I walked hand in hand. I'm not exactly sure when or how this happened, but by the time we exited the elevator on the floor where our room was located, I was holding Lucia's hand and Jess was holding Matt's hand. I couldn't help but smile as I thought this was possibly going to just be the first of many swaps we would do tonight.

We had purposely booked a large suite so that we would have enough room for the four of us. The main door from the hotel hallway opened up into a nice sitting area with a kitchenette attached to it. Proceeding through the sitting area was the bedroom, complete with a king sized bed. Off of the bedroom was a huge bathroom, with a double headed shower - plenty of room for four people to be in there at once. I could tell from the looks on their faces that Matt and Lucia were impressed with the room.

They sat down on opposite love seats, clearly signaling to us that we should join them. As I sat next to Lucia, she put her hand on my thigh, causing my cock to stir in my pants. Since we were in a more private setting than at the bar, our conversation turned more personal at this point. Surprisingly, Jess was the one who started the conversation in that way.

"So, how did you guys get started in the swinging lifestyle?", inquired Jess. Under normal circumstances, this question would have been wildly inappropriate to ask people that we just met, but since we seemed to have a great connection, it just seemed natural.

Lucia answered, "Let's see. We have been going on dates with other couples for about three years now. It started when we were going through a rough patch in our marriage. Matt was always away for work, and we just did not make enough time for each other. After having a huge fight with Matt over the phone, I was so mad at him that I wanted to hurt him somehow. It was vindictive of me, and I regret it now for wanting to cause him pain, but I was just so angry. I went out to a bar and struck up a conversation with a nice looking man. Before we knew it, I was back at his place having sex with him."

"So what did you do next?", I asked. As Lucia was telling the story she was rubbing her hand up and down my thigh.

"I loved Matt, but something about having sex with this other man was so exciting for me. I definitely felt guilty, so when Matt came home I confessed it all to him. I knew I could keep it a secret, bit secrets tend to destroy relationships, and I had too much respect for Matt."

"So what did you do?", asked Jess as she looked at Matt. At this point, I noticed that they had shifted positions on the love seat so that her legs were draped across this lap and he was gently caressing her bare calves.

"After getting over the initial shock, I was surprised that I wasn't mad. The thing that upset me the most was that Lucia betrayed my trust, not that she had sex with another man. We had many long conversations over the next few days, and I forgave her. About a month or two later, I was fooling around on the internet and stumbled across a swinger forum. The sex with Lucia was always great, but I was interested in the possibility of having sex with another woman, with Lucia's blessing. I already knew that I was not bothered with her having sex with another guy, so I brought up the idea to Lucia."

"And the rest is history", interjected Lucia. "What about you? You said that this is your first date with another couple?"

"Yes", replied Jess. "Just like Matt we stumbled across swinger stuff on the internet and we have been fascinated with it ever since."

While looking at Jess, Matt asked, "OK. What would you say is your best quality?"

With a coy grin, Jess said, "I have been told by Ben that I'm a good kisser." When Matt looked at me, I nodded my head in agreement.

"Well, let me see for myself." Leaning in Matt kissed Jess on the lips. Here I was, watching another man kiss my wife in front of me, and I was not at all jealous. I found it beyond exciting when I saw their lips open and Jess stuck her tongue into Matt's mouth.

My tunnel vision focusing just on Matt and Jess was broken when Lucia whispered into my ear, her hot breath tingling my skin, "I think we can do better than that." Her lips then met mine in a sweet kiss. A range of emotions flooded my brain. I was definitely attracted to Lucia and my cock was almost at full mast in my pants. It was a little strange kissing a woman other than Jess, but at the same time, I felt content and comfortable with Lucia. As our kiss grew more passionate, Lucia reached down to feel my cock through my pants, which caused me to moan at the touch. Our make out session must have lasted a few minutes, with the only sound in the room being the smacking of my lips on Lucia and Jess on Matt.

When we broke our kisses, we were all smiles. Matt said, "Ben, you were right. Jess is pretty skilled at kissing."

"That's not all I'm good at", Jess said in a sultry voice. From her mannerisms, it was obvious to us all that Jess was completely comfortable with Matt.

Getting up from her seat, Lucia said, "Let me see for myself." Before Jess could react, Lucia had traveled the distance between the two love seats and planted a huge kiss on her lips. Holy fuck, I though to myself. My wife was now making out with another woman! I was interested to see how Jess responded. She had said that she would be open to being physical with a woman, but I'm not sure she expected it to happen so quickly. Clearly, Jess was fine with her first lesbian experience because she returned Lucia's kisses with a great level of enthusiasm. All I could do was watch as their tongues wrestled and they ran their hands up and down each other's bodies.

Looking at me, Matt said, "This is one of my favorite things to watch."

I agreed with him a hundred percent. This was the hottest, most erotic sight I had ever witnessed. Sure, I had watched a lot of lesbian porn in my day, but the fact that this was happening right in front of me with my wife an active participant was so arousing. They could only kiss for so long before they needed to come up for air. When they separated, Jess was grinning ear to ear. "Oh, fuck", I heard her mumble as she lounged back down on the love seat.

"So do you think that we should maybe take this to the bedroom?" asked Lucia as she got up off of Jess. Matt, Jess, and I agreed that this was a great idea. As Matt and Lucia went into the bedroom, Jess took me aside and asked, "Are you OK with this?" My reply was to kiss her and taking her by the hand, I led her into the bedroom.