Tempest in a Teacup: BBC and Me

As a black man id have to say i see where your coming from and respect it.

This topic is hard because of the history behind it. I grew up as the stereotype was starting to fade out, but you still heard some from my parent's generation warning their daughters about the danger of black men who couldn't control themselves around white women.

To do the topic justice, you almost have to flip the script. Rather than the black male taking advantage of the innocent white woman, the white woman would have to be the aggressor and the black male the innocent "victim" of seduction.

First of all thank You for your Expression! It came from a genuine place and was well received. As a Black man who fits the BBC description it feels validating to know that an Artist has appreciation for the Subject.

Many times the sexual objectification of a person regardless to race,gender, body type, orientation, etc., is offensive. Even I how one presents themselves to the World. We all have been shaped by Evils of White Male Supremacy. The imagery and language that we use to communicate is steeped in a False Narrative that is hard to Escape.

As a Human Male attracted to entire range of Human Females I wish to be appreciated for who I am. That's Normal Human Behavior. There are times when my Sexuality is Toxic and offensive. The Balance in any form of Human expression is always a work in progress.

Everyone on the planet possesses traits that can be used to reflect the Racist Views of society. Comic book references to prove the Point the Animalistic nature of Wolverine or Beast would be viewed as offensive is said Characters were of African origin. Doctor Strange can practice the Dark Magical Arts yet Brother/Doctor Voodoo is perceived as more of a Demonic Character.

The Goals of Art is to increase Perception as well as Entertain. Yes Porn is Art. So I say feel free to engage in your process of Creation. I enjoy my BBC being admired and enjoyed and desired. Yet I never want to be mocked or overly fetishisticized in the process. I have in the past let my Anger with the World direct my Sexual Self Image , which was a terrible Mental place to be and took a lot to escape from.

Hello Tempest. A few first things. 1. I am an absolutely adoring fan of your work. 2. I'm a married black male. With that being said, I have never once listened to your work and thought, "I wish Tempest would do a BBC fantasy". On the contrary, the fact that your are so open and inclusive has always made me feel as though each audio was made just for me regardless of my cock size, color or marital status. So before I even listen I wanted you to know there really should be no pressure on you or anyone else to do anything to appease one demographic or another.

First, I am a newer fan of your audios and this is EXCELLENT!! Second, while not a "person of color" I fully support (as much as I can) the physical and emotional struggles you face currently. And finally, I'd like to say thank you for the time and effort you put into all of your audios, not just this one. Bless you!

When race is objectified in porn it makes me feel racist. I’m white and want to be anti-racist. It feels like a micro aggression to assume stereotypes about race or to get off on them. It would in my opinion be just as sexy to pretend like race doesn’t exist. Big cock is big cock. Energy is energy. Whenever you ride our energy it really gets me off. It is so kind and empathetic for you to share this. You really turn me on with your kindness.

First of all I am huge fan of your audio stories. I usually listen from the shadows and don't comment but this audio was probably the most stimulating of all. I am a man of color and appreciated the fact that you are trying to be inclusive and recognize the unique struggles having black skin carries (male or female). I understand the balance you're trying to strike by praising the body, but also wanting to convey that it's that person's essence thats the ultimate draw. I think you've already uncovered the right way to do it. I can't speak for all black men, but I can say that b/c you are sensitive to the differences between a fetish and obsessive objectification, I think it will manifest implicitly in the way you ultimately decide to tell the story about BBC (should you decide to do this). I believe our sub-conscious thoughts have a way of influencing our active streams of concsiousnes. That being said, I don't think you need to concentrate so much on whether or not you've overstepped the bounds and entered into the realm of objectification. I personally find the contrast between black and white skin really attractive, especially when intertwined during sexual activity. I'd say just have fun with it. You're an amazing story teller, a beautiful soul and I look forward to hearing more from you. Whether you do the BBC thing or not, I'll still be a fan. Thank you for you being an ally, for empathazing and seeing me as I am. Be well. *Now back to the shadows I go*...... (forgive the spelling mistakes)