by barrington
If you think the occasional fuck buddy is going to do you like YOU want dear, you're in fantasy land. Fuck buddies are in it mostly for their own gratification. If you happen to enjoy as well, that's OK. Freedom and Independence are great but they come with a cost. To build a relationship you have to share and leave yourself vulnerable. Most people think the trade offs are worth it but not all relationships are good ones. So you pays your money and you takes your chances. Maybe she's not really ready for the associated risk. Sounds like she wants the romance without the risk but it just doesn't work that way.