All Comments on 'Use versus Abuse'

The name of the game is 'responsibility', the constant companion to authourity.

A dom has authourity over a sub, and is thus responsible for their health and well being. Authourity without responsibility means nothing but misery for the sub, in my opinion.

Nice work Cherry. Again you've written an insightful piece of work.

Very well written. It is good to see a submissive who is aware of their rights. Again, I say it is very important to do your research. And I can see that you have done yours.

Your essay is fine and understandable. But if you really want to make your point and be remembered, add some specifics. Some anecdotes of bad experiences as well as those where the "good DOM" saved you from yourself would enhance this greatly. If they would be too revealing (and they might be) change some details and/or do the old "a friend of mine tells a story of ...."

You are being very prolific in a short time - keep it up!

<hands you a rose WITH the thorns>